So my future brother in law is getting married this year and we are getting married the year after I'm really struggling on buying thing as I don't want to copy but I don't know what they having x
Hi Don't worry about what others are having just get what you want :)
If you are really worried ask him but I wouldnt worry and just make it the day you want rather than the opposite to theirs x
Try not to worry to much as yours will be special to you. When to my cousin wedding and some parts was the same,but I know it will be different because of venue and people :) x