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UKbride Member Request 15 Jun 2017

What do you do if your regretting asking someone to be your bridesmaid? We...

What do you do if your regretting asking someone to be your bridesmaid? We have been close for years but she's moved away and I'm the one always texting etc to keep the friendship going but I get little back. I feel I've made the wrong choice but we aren't as close anymore and there's still some time before the wedding

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 15 Jun 2017

Hi the only thing I can think of is to say that you can't afford to have her as a bridesmaid as money is tight :)

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 15 Jun 2017

I agree with Lucy, that is the only thing I can think of too. x

Stacey Hutchinson
Stacey Hutchinson 15 Jun 2017

I think you need to sit down and really make sure its what you want to do, then once you are sure meet up with her and like the other have suggested explain the budget just isn't there and if she offers to pay then she really does want to be your bridesmaid. All of my bridesmaids are a good distance from me but I know they are always there if I need them.

Rachel Squire
Rachel Squire 17 Jun 2017

Could say you want her at appointments,trails dress shopping etc. If she cant do all that she may back out herself.

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