Alishia Goldbourne
Alishia Goldbourne 10 May 2017

Another question too ask you all Should we buy a house before getting...

Another question too ask you all Should we buy a house before getting married? Or get married and then start saving for a house, as we are 23/24 year old, I said too my other half about getting married first then start saving for a house, we are living at my other half mum's house ATM and she has offers for us too stay abit longer What do you all think?

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 10 May 2017

Hi I think that is a decision you have to make together :)

Stacey Hutchinson
Stacey Hutchinson 11 May 2017

Definitley a decision you need to make together. You will need to decide how much you can save towards a deposit and also what type of house you would like. Me and my partner are getting married in May 2018 and plan to buy a house just before we will be saving 6,000 for the wedding and 12,000 for the deposit on the house.

Alishia Goldbourne
Alishia Goldbourne 11 May 2017

Thankyou for the advice ladies :)

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 11 May 2017

Hi Alshia. As others have said it is of course a decision you must come to together. But In my honest opinion I would buy a house before having a wedding. Me and my partner have had our house for 3 years and it is now worth £100k more than what we brought it for and are now selling it and moving to a bigger property, and the sale is also funding our wedding! We live just outside of London in a popular computing area so house prices rise quickly, although I appreciate not everywhere grows at the same rate our area does. I can only say things from my point of view, but I have heard so many people say they regret spending money on a wedding when years later they still don't have a house yet. A wedding is one day, a house is for life! Good luck and I am sure whatever you decide will be right for you!

Julia McCallion
Julia McCallion 12 May 2017

Have a talk about it together and work out your budgets and if it's something you both can afford :)

Kate Phillips
Kate Phillips 13 May 2017

House first, then you can save for your dream wedding and not scrimp to much!

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 19 May 2017

I would say house first as then you dont have to live with the in laws once you are married but you have to decide this one together.

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