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UK Bride Member Request 8 May 2017

Does anyone else feel like their wedding won't be what they dream it to be?...

Does anyone else feel like their wedding won't be what they dream it to be? Like it's gonna look like a kids birthday party rather than a wedding? I get married next March and due to being on a strict budget, I am terrified that we are gonna do it all wrong and regret everything! ???? I know the most important part of the day is marrying the man I love but it's still a lot of money to throw away :-(

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 8 May 2017

Hi I feel exactly the same nothing is working out as I envisaged e.g. not getting married in a church, the dress I wanted just doesn't suit and so on. Like you we are on a small budget but there is no doubt in my mind about my Fiance :)

Rachel Squire
Rachel Squire 8 May 2017

It's very hard keeping to a budget. Try get any creative friends family to help out. Also look on places like eBay amazon for things you need. I hope it goes well for you xx

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 8 May 2017

I have already decided it's not gonna be as good as I envision as I do this a lot build things up then get very disappointed everytime

Jayne Timmins
Jayne Timmins 8 May 2017

I keep on wondering if i've chosen the right things, will it all go together etc. I think as brides we want everything to be so perfect, but I'm sure everything will look lovely on the day, for us all!

Drew Harris
Drew Harris 8 May 2017

I feel exactly the same, I've got over 12 months to plan and save up and I know it won't be enough. We are also on a strict budget and everything I like is too expensive! My other half tells me every day that it will be fine and at least we will be together to share the memories. I know he's right but I still worry xx

Danielle Chorley
Danielle Chorley 8 May 2017

I have this every time I start planning something :(
We are the same trying to do everything on a small budget.. the venues are too expensive, the food is too expensive, the only upside is that I am doing the decor etc myself! But even now it's like everything I like is out of my budget!
I found a lot of inspiration on Pinterest- how to save money and DIY a lot of things if this helps!
Wishing you all the best xxxxx

Chelsey French
Chelsey French 9 May 2017

highlights of every wedding I have ever been too.. the bride walking down the aisle, the speeches and the first dance- all of which are priceless!!! It's not about how much you spend and all the little things you imagine will make your wedding but cost the earth- noone will remember in a years time! Scrap table gifts as they are often left behind and can be pricey and search websites like bride2bride !! xx

Kim Matthews
Kim Matthews 10 May 2017

I have to admit I was never that enthusiastic about having a church wedding and reception. I wanted to go away really, but due to OH's Mum not being able to travel we are having it quite local. So I am now keeping it simple, our local church, and then we are going to a place in the countryside where they have rooms to stay, a small room to hire and a rather amazing Italian restaurant. I am a little worried that people will think I have kept it too simple... but I can promise them some lovely food, a great bar and a comfortable nights sleep. I think whatever we choose we are going to worry about it... I am making the cake myself (I used to do this for a living so I am ok about that), but I don't want to spend a fortune on flowers, decorations, and unnecessary things. You are so right everthing is so expensive, it would be so easy to get carried away, but I don't want to spend more money than we can afford and I definitely don't want to be putting anything on credit. I am sure whatever you choose to do will be wonderful, you have to concentrate on making it a day full of memories and make sure you enjoy it. :)

Odell Bowen
Odell Bowen 10 May 2017

I have to say sadly agree with something everyone has said above. If I could get married tomorrow I would, I can't wait, but everything is so expensive. I just hope it turns out to be the day we both dream of in the end!

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