Ah I need do me advise and I can't ask my h2h as it's ment to be a surprise... His cousin lives in America and he messaged me saying he going to come over for the wedding with his new girlfriend (She wasn't invited as they got together after the invites) and that not to tell anyone as he wants to supirse the whole family!! His just going to turn up at the church just before myself and bridesmaids arrive am I being selfish for not liking this as it's going to be all about them and it's not going to feel like our day ????
To be honest I think you are right, good luck :)
Yeah thata a little lime light stealing can he not get there with the other guests? Yes its nice to see distant reles but not right before your big entrance!
It would be nice for him to be there but not to surprise everyone
I agree maybe surprise them the day before but not just before your ceremony
I agree, not fair and I would feel the same way!
I agree, someone else's wedding is not the place to do something like that, he also cannot just assume he can bring his girlfriend along without being invited!
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