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UKbride Member Request 17 Apr 2017

My fiancé has a daughter who will be 6 when we get married. In addition to...

My fiancé has a daughter who will be 6 when we get married. In addition to traditional vows, we're writing & exchanging our own. Should I mention her in mine??

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UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

I think that would be a lovely touch to them both, especially if you don't tell them x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

My husband said he's vows to me and then at the end promised to take care of me and my son ...I think it's nice as you are officially becoming a family ...my son was 10 and also read a poem about becoming a family so as not to be left out x

Heather Hawkins
Heather Hawkins 17 Apr 2017

That would be lovely. A promise to her also

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

Ye, your partner and child come as a package. It's a lovely touch

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

I've heard of couples writing a short, separate set of vows for their partners children xx

Gabrielle Baker
Gabrielle Baker 17 Apr 2017

I am involving my step kids in there own part of our ceremony.
Saying our own special vows of love and acceptance and giving gifts.
We have step kid/s on both sides and a child of our own.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

I have step son wgo was 6 when we gor married i didn't tell anyone and i read him promise vows during my speech, he is a massive part of my life and i love him like he is my own wouldn't have felt right not too, if you do a Google search u will find some ideas of how to start xx p.s. Think it's a lovely idea xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

Yes xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Apr 2017

That would be nice

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 18 Apr 2017

I think that would be lovely

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 18 Apr 2017

When you are marrying someone who has children already you are not just marrying him you are marrying his life which includes his children on this basis I think yes it would be lovely to include his children xx

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