how have people said that only immediate family children can come the day and not cousin children, the wedding venue can only have 65 guests so at full capacity there, we both have big family's and already on 60+ day guests with out cousins children they will be welcome at night just unsure how to word it in the invites with out upsetting people ???
We are having the same problem but when we explained that the venue only held a small amount of people then our guests understood . Hope that helps.
If i had children and my cousin said that i wouldnt go! Be prepared! I can see how people dont want kids there for whatever reason but i got an evening invite to my cousins wedding and because we lived over 6 hours asay i said no to the invite. I was very hurt and upset that she didnt want us there and havent spoken since.