we have both decided not to invite young cousin to our day but welcome to...

None of my cousins are coming to the day ceremony but they've all been invited to the evening. No one seems to how an issue with it xxxx

^^^^ my friends done the same with her cousins x

I'm doing the same with ours!! Glad others are too as we felt a bit bad!!

None of my cousins are coming to the day, they are all coming at night, nobody has a problem with it xx

I told mine you can come to the day and the children can be dropped off in the evening or you all come to the evening as some of them are almost a table on their own. I was upfront very early and they were all fine with it. All of them were happy to have them just in the evening as some are really small and might not cope as well for the whole day x

We haven't invited any of our cousins to the day but are inviting them to the evening. Everyone seems happy with it

all my cousins sept for one came to our day as they had to travel and three are under 7 and two were bridesmaids :) didnt cost extra and they loved the toy corner i made :) my partner however as a bigger family and he just decided to invite is cousins to evening due to numbers x

I have a big family and only places for 40 at our wedding. I had no complaints from anyone, no one questioned why they weren't invited to the day. It's your wedding and your money. Do not put yourself into debt for it!

only 4 of my cousins are coming and thats because we see them regularly and are young and play with my daughter, one other cousin is invited to the night and the others arent invited at all

We are not inviting any cousins to the wedding breakfast purely because of the cost. We are getting married in church so have said we would love for them to come to that but we are restricted with numbers die to cost however they are all invited to the evening. Most people understand this, I know our families do. If your family don't understand this then they will just have to lump it because it's the way it has to be xxx

I've told mine all kids are welcome to evening but die to costs and numbers, we can't accomodate them during the ceremony and breakfast, the parents can come to day and have their kids brought to em in evening If they wish or cam wait n come to just evening with their kids, everyone had been told and are ok with it and I'll remind em again when invitations are sent

We restricted children to be immediate family only so the only under 7s were nieces and nephews.

We are having the same problem finding hard to decide who to invite to the full day and who just to the evening

We didn't invite cousins to the day down to costs but invites them all to the evening x