Our wedding was originally booked for October 2020, and we sent invitations out in May 2020 before deciding to postpone to October 2021 due to Covid. We've now decided to cut our guest list down even if we are allowed the full 130 reception guests. How would you go about uninviting people? Would you plead ignorant and just not send a new invite or would you address it with them? Thanks :-)
Tell everyone the wedding is off then send new invites for the new wedding at a later date x
We have been telling the guest who are not in our revised 50 that’s due to current world situations we are reducing our numbers but they will get an invite to our party for next year x
I think you have to speak to them otherwise it is quite rude. Ultimately they all love you and will understand your decision.
I would speak to them and be honest they will understand
I would definitely speak to people. Just explain it's best to reduce numbers with the current climate. People will totally understand. Ignoring or leaving off new invite list is ultimately opening a whole new can of worms x
Invite both families and partners and few friends.
I would speak to them and explain the situation, you'll be surprised by how many people will understand and will still wish you congrats. Xx
130 ??? Wow in Scotland we were only allowed 18 guests, I feel for you as it’s not easy and did cause a few family upsets
We have sent revised 'you've made the cut' to only 20 for our ceremony In July and a wee thing to say to everyone else that we hope they understand and can join us next year for our big reception x
I sent out lots of invites for our wedding that was supose to b November last year church booked then had to cancel because I could only have 15 in the end I couldnt invite some as I've got a big family brothers sisters there partners our mums so we just went to regestry office in December last year with our mums as witnesses everybody was so understanding having a big family party once we are allowed to still had the best day and stayed in a hotel its not all about family its how u make it with your special partner
Honesty is the best policy 🙂 It’s your wedding and so many things have had to change in the last year, I’m sure they will understand
I would be honest x
Came across this petition maybe worth a sign 🤞🏻🤞🏻 I’ve got my fingers crossed as I’m due to be married this July, originally postponed from last July! Xx
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/550498
Why un invite do it online for every loved one to see. Then later when everything is over you could hold a party to thank them all....
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