Kaylee Wilson
Kaylee Wilson 25 Apr 2020

When I get married I have for bridesmaids with 1 flower girl, how ushers...

When I get married I have for bridesmaids with 1 flower girl, how ushers should my partner have

19 Comments
Maria Boe
Maria Boe 25 Apr 2020

I suppose its up to him/both of you.
Its tradition for the chief bridesmaid/maid of honour to walk out of the venue with the best man, and any other bridesmaids to leave with ushers. But bridesmaids can leave together and vice versa if applicable. x What ever you want really! x

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

As little or as many, or none, as he wants!

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

I had 1 maid of honour and 2 bridesmaids. My husband had 3 ushers and his best man.
We were happy how it was.
Its your day, have as many or as little as you want. Just enjoy it. xx

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

As many as he likes. There's no tradition in the UK for both sides of the bridal party to be equal in number.

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

As many or little as u want

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We have have 8 bridesmaids 6 groomsmen 2 flower girls and 2 page boys h2b has a very big family 😐

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

He can have as many as he wants

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

Ushers usually show people which side of the aisle they site so one for you and one for him, often these are brothers or best friends without another task

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We are having 4 bridesmaids inc maid of honour and 1 flower girl and the groom only has his best man as he didnt want ushers 👍

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We have four bridesmaids, 2 flower girls, 2 page boys, a best man, 3 ushers and a best woman 🤦‍♀️😂 one usher/best man per bridesmaid but then an extra as best woman xx

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

i chose to have the same number as my husband because I would have hated the unequal numbers standing beside us x

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

My first wedding I had 3 bridesmaids and one flower girl. Had two ushers, one from each side of family to show people to seats. It's entirely up to each bride what they want. Never been to a wedding where there was the same amount of ushers/groomsmen and bridesmaids, that is more of an American tradition than a UK one.

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We both have quite big families so for our wedding we had 6 bridesmaids, 6 flower girls,4 page boys, 2 best men and 4 ushers lol.

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We have 2 bridesmaids (8 and 12) and 2 page boys (2 and 8 ) then we have 3 ushers and a best man. That’s all

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

Hubby had 1 best man 3 ushers and a page boy i had 4 bridesmaid and a flower girl

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

We had 3 bridesmaids 1 best man and 2 ushers x

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

Don’t worry about matching numbers. The important thing is to ask people who are genuinely close to you who you/he wants to be involved in your special day. Pick people who will support him, that’s their number 1 job.

UKbride Member 27 Apr 2020

However many he wants 🤷🏻‍♀️

UKbride Member 28 Apr 2020

We didn't have any ushers.

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