So we get married in next year and I have my 3 sisters, my SIL and my best friend as bridesmaids and our 2 daughters as flower girls. My brother said he didn't want to be a part of the wedding as he'll be 12 by then and doesn't really care. My mum has now said that if he isn't involved, her and my sister's won't be attending. I don't want him to be a part of it if he doesn't want too, also there's nowhere for him to be a part of it. What did I do?
All sit down together and talk it out. Your mum might not have realised that your brother didn't want to be involved, or your brother might have changed his mind. Only way for you all to be on the same page is to say how you're feeling