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UKbride Member Request 26 Sep 2019

MoH

I'm in a dilemma. I'm getting married in February and over a year ago I told my MoH I would like to have a week away with her in January so we can get a bit of colour. She was well up for it and we agreed to save and book a last minute bargain. Last week she admitted she only had £50 saved and if her car fails its MOT in Jan she wont be able to afford to go. At the time I said it was ok and we'll come up with a plan b, a long weekend in the uk. The more I think about it the more angry/annoyed I am, as I really want to go away and get a tan to make my dress look even more amazing. What do I do? Do I still go either on my own or with someone else? Offer to pay for her and she can pay me back? Or forget about going abroad and have the weekend in the uk, and try to enjoy it?

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Andrea Trubshaw
Andrea Trubshaw 26 Sep 2019

Don't stress sweety just ask your partner to see if a a friend or family member can help them with some money. At the end of the day it's only money. Love conquers all 😁

Becky Mitchinson
Becky Mitchinson 29 Sep 2019

I wouldn't worry you have enough wedding stress x if you can afford to pay and know you will get it back then of course take her (if your doing gifts that could be hers) or you could just take someone else perhaps family x

Becky Mitchinson
Becky Mitchinson 29 Sep 2019

I wouldn't worry you have enough wedding stress x if you can afford to pay and know you will get it back then of course take her (if your doing gifts that could be hers) or you could just take someone else perhaps family x

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