What is the etiquette with family RSVPing? My deadline was today but none of my partners family have replied. Are we meant to assume they are coming? My partner is so laid back about it all, he has done it all before but it's my first and I'm so excited, every time I get a reply I'm so happy. We have only invited 30 people in total so its nearly a third of our guests that hasn't replied.
No RSVP = no meal. Don't assume they're coming. Send them all a message explaining that the rsvp deadline has gone and you need to know whether or not they're coming for numbers and that if they don't rsvp, then you wont be ordering a meal for them, this time give them a 48 hour deadline. I'm better if I have to give an answer right away, rather than giving me 2 to 3 weeks or longer to reply. Good luck