Hi all, Just after a bit of advice from fellow brides... my future mother-in-law has bought a white/cream dress with pink flowers on for our wedding in 7 weeks, am I being unreasonable to be upset? I had a conversation a while back with fmil about what colour outfit she was going to wear and the lapel my h2b and I had ordered for both his and my mum, and I said to her 'I don't need to say no white or cream clothes do I?!' I was assured that she would not buy anything in either of those colours. I also had the same conversation with my mum, who was very upset at being asked not to wear cream... but now we're 7 weeks away, and I feel like whichever way things go, someone is going to be upset! I thought it was an unspoken rule that you don't wear cream or white to someone else's wedding?!