Hi all, I have been engaged to my fiancé for 2 years and our wedding is a few months away now! From the beginning of our relationship I have always struggled with his mother. She has made comments to me that I look fat in outfits, I cant cook etc. She never asks how I am when she calls my fiancé. She has made comments about my culture which could be deemed racist. When confronted she said I am too sensitive. I have tried really hard in the relationship to gain her approval although recently I have realised I don’t need it and it is better for me that I don’t try so hard. I know my fiancé worries about our relationship but I don’t feel he is very sympathetic to the way she is with me. I don’t want to cut off the relationship for the sake of my fiancé but if anyone could give me some tips on how to deal with difficult mother in laws that would be appreciated!