What would you say is the most stressful part of the wedding process? Mine...

The budget would be mine as lot of things are more than you expect

No I found the big things very easy to sort it's all the little things like table decorations and favours that I find annoying to arrange/plan/shop for x

Pleasing everyone

The actual day. The planning was fine. The actual day, everything that could’ve gone wrong, did.

Never put your faith in a venue to organise your day.

Seating arrangements, stressful but fun. X

Defo pleasing people i know everyone says its your day n it os but if u think you aint pleasing other people then u aint happy

I think it's the hidden costs. Like our venue gave a price for children.... this didn't include the chair?? An extra £2.50 per child 🤦‍️

Definitely budget. As said above, I'm also finding things are a lot more than expected

Table planning as my parents are divorced and are refusing to sit on the same table

Oh that was the easy part

the guestlist always gonna upset someone

I must be the only bride who didn't find the whole process stressful. Perhaps because I chose a simple ceremony at a hotel in Letchworth, with a reception in the same room? I made all the table decorations and bouquets too. I really enjoyed the preparation and I was so excited to get married, I was giggling throughout the morning, while getting ready and during the ceremony too.

Money. Worrying that we wont have enough xxx

Everthing 🙈🤣🤣 I thought id really enjoy the process but struggle to find time to do things and now past caring about most things asling as were both at the church i will be happy ❤️

Our ceremony only seats 85 guests so we sent our invites out & hardly anyone got back to us,so I put a facebook post up,which a few more commented on then its came to a stand still where we don't actually know who is coming,which I find dead rude because we can't offer these spaces to anybody else incase people just turn up without letting us know 😒

I didn't find it too stressful. Tho in the end people were texting the day before asking for extra people to come, different meals, to move seats.... I just sed no and luckily my husbands sister who was also my bridesmaid dealt with most of it for me :)

Guests who don't RSVP 😬

Finding a partner?

guest list and getting rsvp’s back... even supplied them but still struggling getting them back lol x

Other people.

Other peoples opinions

How much things cost when you say ''it's for a wedding'' !!!!! xjx

I didn’t find it stressful at all. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I think because I planned MY wedding MY way and didn’t worry about all the things that people seem to stress about such as who to invite, or being bullied into doing it a certain way. It was an amazing day and I wouldn’t change a thing if I did it all again. Do what makes you happy not others

I didn’t find it stressful at all. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I think because I planned MY wedding MY way and didn’t worry about all the things that people seem to stress about such as who to invite, or being bullied into doing it a certain way. It was an amazing day and I wouldn’t change a thing if I did it all again. Do what makes you happy not others

Mine is waiting. I’m so impatient and excited for our wedding. Everything is done, just need it to be July 2020 now. X

For us it was when we sent out our invites 3 people moaned within 48 hrs off which part of the day they had been invited to the one was my husband friend (not anymore) he caused a lots of issues and was bad mouthing us on Facebook made us both really ill that’s when we both decided that it was our weekend screw everyone else we would do what made us happy and if u didn’t like it then don’t come we got married 28th August 2016 and it was the best decision we made we had a wonderful day and knowing that everyone that was there wanted to be there made it even better xx

The seating plan!

Families....

How many things there are to do lol... I don't care where we get married, I only want a few select people there and I'm not going to spend money on people who never bother with us or our children. Registry office would do me I just want to get married to the man I've been with for almost 17 yrs.

Finding the outfits we like for our children and still haven't and we get married in May

Sticking to a budget there's so many hidden costs with a wedding seems as soon as u mention the word wedding everything doubles in price! and other people having so much to say about everything stressed me out as well in the end I was like feck it its our day we'll do it our way and it was everything we wanted it to be. :)

Trying to keep everyone happy

At the moment I would say the waiting, I just want to have our day already ❤

Guest list. There are so many people we would like for the whole day but we're having to invite a lot of people to the evening only due to a maximum of 50 at the ceremony including children, babies and photographer.

Paying for it!!!

I think the most stressful is the seating plan and waiting. I'm on 123 days till we get married and I'm so ready for it

Its got to be the family. No one gets on with each other. X

I'm finding everything stressful, we are paying for it ourselves, everyone excited n wants to come but no one wants to help with anything, I have done everything on my own.

I'm the most chilled out laid back bride ever one of my bridesmaids shouted at me cos I hadn't booked for a dress fitting the wedding is 18 months away!!!

Out of the whole thing it was the seating plan that was most stressful! Having certain people who can't sit with certain people! And then people who drop out last minute. Nightmare!

Finding a suitable husband

Finding my dress🙈 and the budget is way out of control 😂

Getting RSVP back

Mines the DJ! I'm very particular about music and just to trust someone enough that they will play the songs I want and leave off ones I don't etc 😂

Trying to make everybody else happy.

People letting me down

Deciding on my centrepieces. I keep changing my mind about them

Guest list, rsvps bridesmaid dress so far

Getting rsvps and making sure we book appointments at the right time

Guest RSVP

Budget out the window and family pissing me off x

Our cake caused us the most stress! - our chosen supplier closed their business 4 weeks before the wedding, no warning, no where to be found and took our deposit with them.
We did find a replacement before the wedding though who made us exactly what we wanted anyway, at short notice so it turned out alright in the end!
Apart from that most of the planning was quite smooth 😊 X

Getting people to give you a definite answer. The best man in particular! Never thought he would be like it but he still hasn't told us for sure if his girlfriend is coming to the meal and we get married beginning of June, he won't commit to the rehearsal and got a feeling he is going to be an arse about his suit!

guest list 😂😂

Dealing with registrars & figuring it all out. We're getting married in a county we don't live in so that was confusing 😖 Certificates fee has gone up by £7 each, from 4 to 11 (Cambridgeshire) yet my friend getting married in Suffolk is only paying £4. I don't know how they work it out. Now they're saying ceremony fee is £540 when we thought it is 500 (originally told it's 490) 🙄 I can't wait til the day now, no more stress lol 😄 x

The seating plan......I haven't even started yet but I just know it's going to be stressful!!

Money

Choosing the colour scheme for an abroad wedding in November and return celebration at home has been my biggest issue so far. Now we’ve got it, choosing bridesmaids dresses as my favourite dresses are all china based x

RSVPs No one sends them back they just say oh we are coming! Grrr so annoying lost track who is and isn't coming!

The venue was the easy bit. So far the stressful bit was having to tell my mum that we can't invite her sisters, had to get my fiance to break that bit of news. She put a brave face on it for about a week then chewed my ear off and made me cry, triggering a semi-rude message from fiance and she hasn't spoken to me since.

Budget certainly as I was made redundant midway through and my wage took a huge hit but we are getting there!

Getting the RSVP's back was by far the most stressful bit - some coming back with no names on, some coming back with more meals selected than guests invited, some not coming back at all - even my MIL didn't RSVP for the 8 people in her family- then had a screaming tantrum about being asked for responses, then after all that didn't even bother to turn up!

The price of the registrar over £600

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