Need some advice who have you had as your MOH I was going to have my best friend but my thinks I'm making a huge mistake and should have my sister
I'm not having a MOH everyone is equal in my eyes so all are bridesmaids. Can always have 2 MOH your sister and friend and share out duties.
I’m having my older cousin as my Matron of honour and my little sister as Chief bridesmaid. Both then have a “title”. I can give them both tasks I need help with as well, more hands on deck!☺️
Same as above. Got my two. Sisters and my bestie. All are equal and no need for the title x
I'm not having one just 3 bridesmaids 👍
I had my sister but wish I would have had my best friend
I’m having both my sister and best friend as I couldn’t pick ️
You don't need to have a MOH at all. Might be simpler to keep all the BM's on the same level for now?
I'm having my best friend as MOH and my 20yr old daughter as chief bridesmaid, my best mate is in Canada and coming over a few days before the wedding so my daughter will probs help me with alot of stuff x
I chose one of my sisters to be chief bridesmaid as out of all my bridesmaids she is the one whose shown most inyerest and yet she lives furthest away 😂
I have my sister but totally see the desire to choos best mate. Ignore what others think and do what you want
I just have 2 adult BMs and a couple of kids, non of them have titles. And I have arranged everything with the help of H2B. BMs were not included in any decisions.
I'm not having one just my 3 nieces and daughter as bridesmaids 😊
I have 3 adult bridesmaids and none of them are being my maid of honor. I see it as why should 1 person have so much responsibility when they could all have the same responsibilities
I’m having two my sister and my best friend 😍👍🏼
I'm having my brother, and no bridesmaids. I'm closer to him than anyone, so it was a no brainer! X
Choose the person you can rely on the most to help you out leading up to the day ️ they need to be your confidante and someone who is good in a crisis!
My best friend was my MOH as I have 2 sisters and it wouldn’t have been fair. Although all my bridemaids and MOH has all the same responsibilities so they didn’t feel as if my MOH was to make al the choices x
I had my best friend. I don't have a sister tho. It's your choice at the end of the day so go with what makes you happy x
My best friend of 18 years is being my MOH. my sister is chief bridesmaid.
I don’t have one there both just bridesmaids
I had 9 moh
I had one of my best friends my sister was a bridesmaid. She didn’t mind though. Talk to your sister about it. I’m sure she will just want you to be happy xxx
My best friend is my MOH and I'm only having my daughter as my bridesmaid.
I don't have one- am just having my two best friends both as bridesmaids :)
Moh is married and cheif bridesmaid is not and are the lead person
Traditionally its supposed to be your sisters who are MOH and CB but if you dont have sisters then whoever you choose. I only have 2 sisters so im not having a MOH they're just gunna be normal bridesmaids.
I didnt have a MOH i had 2 bridesmaids and deligated jobs evenly.
I had my cousin as MOH, then I had my sister and 2 best friends as bridesmaids
Have whoever's you want it's your wedding. I'm having my best friend and my fiance is having his best friend as his best man. Have a lovely day xx
Best friend is moh sister and oldest friend are bridesmaid. It’s all down to your preference xx
My MOH is my sister in law,I don't have a sister or a best friend and she's just the right woman for the job then my daughters are bridesmaids x
I'm having my sister and friend as a bridesmaid but it is up to you :)
my step-sister was my MOH. We've never been closeclose as our parents were married after we were! We met when we were well in our twenties, so never had a real 'sister' relationship but good friends. I chose her instead of my best friend for two reasons - one, she's the only "sister" figure I have, being an only child, & two, she's the most organised & reliable person I know!
my MOH is my sister because she is, and always will be, my first point of call for anything best friend is bridesmaid with her daughter
I am just having both sisters and they are sorting between themselves x
I'm gonna sound like a broken record but...neither. I don't think MOH are necessary, it's a big honour to be a bridesmaid so no one needs the extra elevated status because it makes the other bridesmaids seem less significant
My only advice would be to really think through who is the person that will care the most? Help you with your planning, be there at the end of the phone if you’re having a dilemma, organise your hen party, helping you choose your hen party outfits, the one who will be honest with your ideas but who is also their for you when you go knicker shopping! The one that you can send screenshots to at any given time of the day/night and you know they’ll reply at their earliest convenience! If your best friend is this kind of person then yes, ask her to be your MOH, but if she’s not and your sister ticks all of the boxes then choose your sister. I hope this helps.
I chose my sister as MOH - honestly the best choice in my opinion x
In the end this person is simply your witness to sign the register. With modern times they are given a lot more duties as we become more americanised and to be honest I picked the person I knew I could count on
I’m not having one. I have four adult bridesmaids, one is my sister, one my best friend and two who are my closest friends who I’ve know all my life. They are all important to me so choosing one is just not what I want to do xx
Iv just got two bridesmaids as my maid of honour can’t make wedding due to being ill and didn’t feel anyone else lived up to the title
I didn't have bridesmaids or maid of honour couldn't really afford it tbh but I would of had my sister also if one of them is married you could have a matron of honor and other one maid of honour x
I had 2- my sister and my sister in law (my hubby’s twin’s wife). My sister was studying abroad and so wasn’t around for most of the planning process, but as she’s my only sister I felt she should play that role. My sister in law was amazing help during the planning process and we grew so close over the course of mine and hubby’s relationship.
Honestly I’d say have whoever you think will be the most support to you. It’s easy to get caught up in worrying who’s right for the role but I’m sure whoever you don’t chose will understand. I didn’t even have my sister as a bridesmaid as she wasn’t sure if she was moving abroad and I don’t think she minded as she was still included in everything x
Have them both
Share responsibilities as one might get offended then again your day your choice xx
Have both my best friend and sister. Sister is the MOH and bestie is chief bridesmaid
My oldest sister... then 4 best friends as bridesmaids... I have 4 sisters so for me this was the fairest way.
My maid of honour knew she was going to be my maid of honour before I even asked her. I literally phoned her the day I got engaged and she scream, "omfg I'm going to be your maid of honour" only because I told her this before I was seeing anyone years ago lol
There are lots of traditions and traditionalists when it comes to weddings. I think you use the ‘rules’ as a rough guide. If your heart is saying your best friend should be your maid of honour then she should be. I know everyone says this and it is your day, make choices that are right for you and your partner xx
its your wedding....have who YOU want...no one else's business x
I had my sister xx
I'll have my sister
My best friend was going to be but let me down and didn't even come to my wedding and then never even congratulated us so I confronted her and she got nasty we haven't spoken in 2 years. I had my sister and I wish I'd asked her in the beginning she did a gr8 job and did a speech wish made me cry xxxx
My sister and best friend shared it xxx
Don’t have one xx
Have both !! My sister has chosen both me and her best friend and we have shared the maid of honor responsibility. I understand how importan my sister best friend is so was more than happy to share the role x
My Maid of honour is my mum and my chief bridesmaid is my niece..xx I also have 4 bridesmaids and a bridesman..xx
I am having my friend who i have been friends with for 18yrs she like a sister to me.