Not sure on whether to have step dad or real dad to walk me down the aisle
Only you know which you would rather have, or have both one on each side if they both mean the same to you
What about having them both walk u down the aisle that way they are both included x
Both! I'm sure they would both feel honoured to share the role :)
I'd personally have both...and you know if would probably mean the world to your step dad to be asked.
If your torn, they are obviously both important, so should both do it.
I would have both tbf.. if your torn, it seems like the both are a massive part of your life and if you were to have your step dad your real dad wouldn’t be happy x
It’s 2019 why not walk your self? To me the situation is dated
I’ve seen someone split it. One stepped in and took over from the other. Was lovely.
Have both x
For my wedding day, I'm splitting this half way as the aisle isn't big enough for both to walk me down.
Have your mum! Then you don't have to choose!
Im having both. My real dad was against it at the begining and at one point i didnt think he would come but he came round and they will both be walking me. Im so happy
I’m having my mum walk me, my step dad is great but my mum is amazing x
have one walk you down the aisle and one do the daddy daughter dance with you
My 19 year old Daughter is giving me away xx
I had both, my dad walked me so far down the aisle then my stepdad joined us to walk down the rest of the aisle x
I’m having both x
My brother a step dad shared the car with step daughter and real dad . Real dad walked down isle and my brother did the main speech . Both danced with her it was a lovely day and a blended family event
I'm having my mum x
I want both
Have mum ,so they don't feel put out.
I have this issue so my son is walking me down the aisle, my sister and her husband walked each other down to avoid any conflict. X
If they both get along.. ask both of them.. if not.. ask your mum.
I had my stepdad as he has been there for me the whole of my life! My real father chose not to come.
I’m having my brother instead ️
I’m having my brother as I couldn’t choose, both will do speeches and my mum is officiating (if she wasn’t she’d walk me down)
Not an easy decision but just follow what your heart tells you- it’s your day and you have to follow your heart not what tradition or other ppl say. Xxxx
My best friend had her two brothers walk her down, one on either arm so not to have to choose between her real dad and step xxx
Whoever you feel contributes most greatly to your wellbeing, joy, and sense of belonging in the family is the best choice
Why not both? If it can only be one, or both would be hurt by choosing the other, go for your mum, or if you feel like it has to be a man, go for a male best friend or brother. Lots of lovely options. Weddings are about love, not nursing hurt feelings.
I’m having my brother to walk me down the aisle instead..
If you're close to both have both id say!
Im not close to my father AT ALL so he wont be at my wedding but ive always been very close to my uncle so im going to ask him ❤
Me and my husband walked down together x
Why not both, I am at my wedding
Either or. Or both, my cousin had her sister walk her down instead
Have your mum do it. I think mums deserve that privilege more than dads
Only you can decide on who you would like to give you away. I'm having my step dad give me away. He was the one Who brought me and my brothers up and I'm closer to him than my biological father.
If you feel that strongly about both of them, then they can both walk you down the aisle which I think would be amazing!
Or both or one ask them ,ask mum
Am having my mum and dad together walk me down the isle as having an unconditional a different wedding stuff to normal ways for my wedding even different style of bridesmaid dresses in same colour and doing an introduction dance in to first dance of all goes well without a hitch as ave planned it all ready x
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