Jessica Bateman
Jessica Bateman 11 Nov 2018

What do people think of not having a seating plan? Letting your guest sit...

What do people think of not having a seating plan? Letting your guest sit were they want?!

21 Comments
UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Nov 2018

We are for the ceremony, people can sit where they please but due to all my guests having meals options I have to have a seating plan for the meal x

Donna Milner
Donna Milner 12 Nov 2018

Our guest just sat where they wanted and everyone mingled together it was nice x

Donna Milner
Donna Milner 12 Nov 2018

Our guest just sat where they wanted and everyone mingled together it was nice x

Caroline Larner
Caroline Larner 12 Nov 2018

It's a nice idea in theory but I think everyone would sit in the groups you'd put them in anyway? Plus there's always the risk of some people not being able to sit with the people they know due to seating arrangements which could be uncomfortable for some. Add to that people's dietary requirements and the caterers needing to know where they are and I say seating plans all the way!

Louise Scullion
Louise Scullion 12 Nov 2018

I think it would be a fine idea for most of the guests but would end up with potential for couples/families being split up or those random guests standing around with no place left for them. To avoid awkwardness for those few i'd have the seating plan for the meal.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Nov 2018

I went to a wedding reception where it was 'sit anywhere' but as others have said, it did end up with odd numbers and some families/couples not being able to sit together so for ours, I did half a seating plan... I mixed everyone up so there was a good mix or people that would get on and allocated a table.. People could choose who to sit next to or where to sit on the table but there were the right numbers and dietary requirements listed for certain tables.

Rebecca Bailey
Rebecca Bailey 12 Nov 2018

I'm just doing a table plan, so people know where to sit but can chose who they sit next to x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Nov 2018

I had a table plan but not assigned seats as I had no dietary requirements. It went well as people got to choose their one seats at the table and choose who they wanted to sit next to. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Nov 2018

I had this... it was fine... who wants to sit with a bunch of people you don't know?x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Nov 2018

We didn't have a seating plan and it was fine. :)

Jan Hirst
Jan Hirst 12 Nov 2018

This is why we aren't having a formal sit down meal.....just want a casual fun day.....so we are having a buffet and people can mingle as they want to

Stephanie Wood
Stephanie Wood 12 Nov 2018

I depends if you are having a full sit down meal and how many guests. If so, if there are any dietary requirements it would make it a lot easier for the venue. As a guest I prefer to know where I’m sitting.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Nov 2018

I went to a wedding without a table plan and it was a nightmare. Took ages for everyone to get seated and people were all over the place, separated from friends and family.

Rebecca Saunders
Rebecca Saunders 13 Nov 2018

We had a table plan, it was easier for dietary requirements, the guests could all be with the people they know and it was better for my sanity not constantly making sure nobody had been left out!

Millie Brown
Millie Brown 13 Nov 2018

I like tradition

Jennifer Howells
Jennifer Howells 14 Nov 2018

I won't be having a seating plan for my own wedding I am hoping that everyone gets on well enough to just choose a seat I will have a table for children x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Nov 2018

Dietary requirements can be a concern for you catering company. Nut allergies are dangerous and can be a big concern if you are having any part of your meal as a sit down. X

Jessica Bateman
Jessica Bateman 18 Nov 2018

thank you! This has helped me out loads. We are having a sit down meal, we have so many children so will be easier for the seating plan.

Tara Banfield
Tara Banfield 22 Nov 2018

I like the idea. People are more likely to have a good time if they feel more comfortable around some people.
One less thing to do too!

Jessica Pearce
Jessica Pearce 28 Nov 2018

I think that is a great idea, however with very fussy family members, we have to have a seating plan.

Becky Mitchinson
Becky Mitchinson 3 Dec 2018

Not something I've thought about I'm dreading doing the seating plan don't want anyone left out xx

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