#MemberRequest hi, me and my partner have been through a lot, his mother was...

#MemberRequest hi, me and my partner have been through a lot, his mother was killed not too long ago, who I was really close to, almost like a best friend to me and we took time out to get away and travelled for 14 months, now we’ve come back everyone is getting on top of us to get a house and get married. My question is, has anyone got married without family and friends there? It’s something we’ve spoke about, as his father also passed 12 years ago and i think it would be too much for both of us to have a ‘big’ wedding.