Hi all. When you started planning and everything started falling into place, did any of you start getting butterflies and nervous? I currently am so I needed to ask so I don't feel like the odd one out ????
Hi I don't have any butterflies but am worried sick as I don't have everything sorted out yet and only have 19 weeks left :)
I just had my veil arrive after alterations. I have now really got the butterflies 😂
I am already and my wedding is not till august next year ,I think its just because you want everything perfect and you want everything to go smoothly ,I get butterflies ever time I listen to different music I'm trying to figure out what I'm coming down the aisle to
I am still trying to decide what to walk down to and writing my wedding vows.
We are not writing our own I think that would stress me out to much lol
I have two weeks to go and am panicking I have missed/forgotten something. I am a pretty organised person normally, but stress levels have shot up quite a bit. Waiting for my bouquet, corsages to be made, said they will be ready by week of wedding, but what if I don't like them etc Sure all will be ok, just overthinking. 🤔
I'm getting nervous n stressed to make sure I've got everything ready for August
I don't yet have a date for ours but every so often I get nervous, even tho we've been together 13 years! Think it's normal
I get overwhelmed looking at things!
I have been terrible I have 4 weeks to go and I've been an emotional wreck even thou I'm so excited to marry him I'm soo nervous xx
Well I just sorted out hair and makeup, transport and car decorations. Also sorted out the lunch for the main bridal and groom party before the reception at 6 pm. I have also nearly finished writing my vows. I'm so nervous 😂
I am a worrier by nature but I'm feeling OK getting married next June. Had my first nightmare about the wedding the other day though 😭
Not atm...but still got 2 years to go!
Ive has butterflies for ages, but only because I hate being centre of attention, dreading messing the vows up, falling over down the aisle and the first dance, everything else is fine 19 days to go
I’m getting married in 5 weeks every things done but can’t help feeling I’ve forgot something cause I’m never this organised but as its coming nearer I feel a bit sick walking down isle in front of everyone x
We get married in October and feel the same... butterflies when I see something else come together...also had first wedding nightmare too...god knows what I'll be like the night before x
The week of my wedding I was a mess! I cried most days!! I think it's just the build up of everything and wanting everything perfect! I was as calm as can be on the day, and was the best day of my life! Xx
We're getting married on halloween. It seems far away until I see it's 141 days... then it sinks in 😂 I'm so worried im going to fall on my face when I walk down the aisle or mess up my vows. Then there's what happens if I mess up the first dance. Or maybe I get too nervous and faint. I'm probably over thinking 😅
we get marries in septmeber. i an pretty organised but have loved planning everything..if something goes wrong so what it goes to the memory of the day. i have been a bit too chilled and keep thinking i must of missed something. Enjoy the build up xx
I'm getting married this Saturday. Everything is done just need to turn up. Have never felt so nervous, excited and anxious about anything. You are not alone.x
Yep totally! I was so nervous on my wedding day too. It’s such a big day so it’s ok to feel nervous x
Hi Jane, you will be fine. All good wishes for the future. Lovely to see you last week.
Anne
I got married 2 weeks ago and i was a nervous wreck on the lead up was fine the morning of then when it came to me getting hair and make up done i felt sick shaky palms sweaty calmed down then caught glimpse of our sons and cried my eyes out then ok again then was fine until music started playing and was time to walk down the aisle my full body was shaking but as soon as i clapped eyes on my husband it melted away was like it was just us in the room and noone else it all went perfectly and it goes so quickly i cant remember it you are that wrapped up in it all its amazing and was apart from our 3 childrens births the best day of my entire life dont worry just enjoy it we have just gotten our pics and vidoes back today cant wait to see them so i can remember lol xx
I knew I would be nervous so I planned to stop to go on a swing in my wedding dress on the way to church & be met by the Durrells otter outside for a kiss & photo 2 relax me .......
After everything was done was the only time I felt anxious which was strange. Kept thinking of definitely forgot something right up until the moment I stepped into my dress and I was then so calm. All the things I worried may happen like kids running around , timings etc went out of my mind. You'll be so in the moment on your day that nothing will bother you. Relax and enjoy the moment you both say I do, the rest will happen all around you but your joy will keep you so happy that nothing else matters.
im getting married august 2021 and i have the music sorted and quite a few other things sorted brought or booked (but not paid yet) however i get butterflies anxious when i think about the day due to wanting everything to go smoothly also talking in front of loads of people although i am trying to work round that now x