Harley Whelan
Harley Whelan 8 Jun 2018

Hi all. When you started planning and everything started falling into place,...

Hi all. When you started planning and everything started falling into place, did any of you start getting butterflies and nervous? I currently am so I needed to ask so I don't feel like the odd one out ????

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 9 Jun 2018

Hi I don't have any butterflies but am worried sick as I don't have everything sorted out yet and only have 19 weeks left :)

Harley Whelan
Harley Whelan 9 Jun 2018

I just had my veil arrive after alterations. I have now really got the butterflies 😂

Sarah Reeves
Sarah Reeves 9 Jun 2018

I am already and my wedding is not till august next year ,I think its just because you want everything perfect and you want everything to go smoothly ,I get butterflies ever time I listen to different music I'm trying to figure out what I'm coming down the aisle to

Harley Whelan
Harley Whelan 9 Jun 2018

I am still trying to decide what to walk down to and writing my wedding vows.

Sarah Reeves
Sarah Reeves 10 Jun 2018

We are not writing our own I think that would stress me out to much lol

Sharon Baker
Sharon Baker 11 Jun 2018

I have two weeks to go and am panicking I have missed/forgotten something. I am a pretty organised person normally, but stress levels have shot up quite a bit. Waiting for my bouquet, corsages to be made, said they will be ready by week of wedding, but what if I don't like them etc Sure all will be ok, just overthinking. 🤔

Catherine Watt
Catherine Watt 11 Jun 2018

I'm getting nervous n stressed to make sure I've got everything ready for August

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

I don't yet have a date for ours but every so often I get nervous, even tho we've been together 13 years! Think it's normal

Amy Eager
Amy Eager 11 Jun 2018

I get overwhelmed looking at things!

Cat Gibson
Cat Gibson 11 Jun 2018

I have been terrible I have 4 weeks to go and I've been an emotional wreck even thou I'm so excited to marry him I'm soo nervous xx

Harley Whelan
Harley Whelan 11 Jun 2018

Well I just sorted out hair and makeup, transport and car decorations. Also sorted out the lunch for the main bridal and groom party before the reception at 6 pm. I have also nearly finished writing my vows. I'm so nervous 😂

Hayley St clair
Hayley St clair 11 Jun 2018

I am a worrier by nature but I'm feeling OK getting married next June. Had my first nightmare about the wedding the other day though 😭

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

Not atm...but still got 2 years to go!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

Ive has butterflies for ages, but only because I hate being centre of attention, dreading messing the vows up, falling over down the aisle and the first dance, everything else is fine 19 days to go

Donna Milner
Donna Milner 11 Jun 2018

I’m getting married in 5 weeks every things done but can’t help feeling I’ve forgot something cause I’m never this organised but as its coming nearer I feel a bit sick walking down isle in front of everyone x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

We get married in October and feel the same... butterflies when I see something else come together...also had first wedding nightmare too...god knows what I'll be like the night before x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

The week of my wedding I was a mess! I cried most days!! I think it's just the build up of everything and wanting everything perfect! I was as calm as can be on the day, and was the best day of my life! Xx

Harley Whelan
Harley Whelan 11 Jun 2018

We're getting married on halloween. It seems far away until I see it's 141 days... then it sinks in 😂 I'm so worried im going to fall on my face when I walk down the aisle or mess up my vows. Then there's what happens if I mess up the first dance. Or maybe I get too nervous and faint. I'm probably over thinking 😅

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

we get marries in septmeber. i an pretty organised but have loved planning everything..if something goes wrong so what it goes to the memory of the day. i have been a bit too chilled and keep thinking i must of missed something. Enjoy the build up xx

Jayne Williams
Jayne Williams 11 Jun 2018

I'm getting married this Saturday. Everything is done just need to turn up. Have never felt so nervous, excited and anxious about anything. You are not alone.x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

Yep totally! I was so nervous on my wedding day too. It’s such a big day so it’s ok to feel nervous x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 11 Jun 2018

Hi Jane, you will be fine. All good wishes for the future. Lovely to see you last week.
Anne

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 12 Jun 2018

I got married 2 weeks ago and i was a nervous wreck on the lead up was fine the morning of then when it came to me getting hair and make up done i felt sick shaky palms sweaty calmed down then caught glimpse of our sons and cried my eyes out then ok again then was fine until music started playing and was time to walk down the aisle my full body was shaking but as soon as i clapped eyes on my husband it melted away was like it was just us in the room and noone else it all went perfectly and it goes so quickly i cant remember it you are that wrapped up in it all its amazing and was apart from our 3 childrens births the best day of my entire life dont worry just enjoy it we have just gotten our pics and vidoes back today cant wait to see them so i can remember lol xx

Sarah Pollard
Sarah Pollard 12 Jun 2018

I knew I would be nervous so I planned to stop to go on a swing in my wedding dress on the way to church & be met by the Durrells otter outside for a kiss & photo 2 relax me .......

Celine Harland
Celine Harland 12 Jun 2018

After everything was done was the only time I felt anxious which was strange. Kept thinking of definitely forgot something right up until the moment I stepped into my dress and I was then so calm. All the things I worried may happen like kids running around , timings etc went out of my mind. You'll be so in the moment on your day that nothing will bother you. Relax and enjoy the moment you both say I do, the rest will happen all around you but your joy will keep you so happy that nothing else matters.

Dina Gregory
Dina Gregory 21 Jun 2018

im getting married august 2021 and i have the music sorted and quite a few other things sorted brought or booked (but not paid yet) however i get butterflies anxious when i think about the day due to wanting everything to go smoothly also talking in front of loads of people although i am trying to work round that now x

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