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My partner has a son who will stay with him the night before the wedding and...

My partner has a son who will stay with him the night before the wedding and my daughter will stay with me, but we are struggling with who our son together should stay with the night before, any advice please

44 Comments
Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 6 Jun 2018

Hi I would say with you depending on his age :)

Heather Sturgess
Heather S 7 Jun 2018

Let him be one of the lads?

Jordan Alexandra
Jordan Alexandra 7 Jun 2018

Our son is staying with his dad. Our daughter is staying with me. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Surely with your htb along with the other son?

Kayleigh Cunningham
Kayleigh Cunningham 7 Jun 2018

My 2 sons are stopping with h2b

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

My advice would definitely depend on his age huni... if he’s only little then stay with you like Lucy said but if he’s a little older then like Heather said... let him be one of the lads

Jan Hirst
Jan Hirst 7 Jun 2018

Depends on age and the role he's having in the wedding....if he's page boy Is say with you if he's older with the guys.....have you asked him what he's like to do?

Mark Humphreys
Mark Humphreys 7 Jun 2018

The boys always stay with the boys, and he'll be with his dad!!!!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Our son who was 15 months stayed with my hubby to be along with my son who was 7 x

Donna Barber
Donna Barber 7 Jun 2018

My son (15) and our son (2) are both staying with my fiancé the night before. Men’s night and all get ready together, even though my son is giving me away. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

My 3 boys will stay with their dad the night before. Have a break, your gonna be 2 busy getting ready to look after 2 littles.

Niki Clarke
Niki Clarke 7 Jun 2018

Id say with his dad xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

My 2 sons stayed with my partner the night before xx

Natalie Holt
Natalie Holt 7 Jun 2018

my boy who is 14 months is staying with me and my daughter that's only because he is young

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Ask your son who he would like to stay with, my guess would be his dad and half brother.

Amy Eager
Amy Eager 7 Jun 2018

With his dad!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

One of the boys x have a girly night x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Let him have a boys night with his dad and Bro. I personally would do that regardless of age. I'm sure your fiance knows what he is doing. Also means you can have a girls night with your daughter.xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

My son was one of the lads. He had only just turned 3 but he loved it. Meant I could relax the night before.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

With his dad, regardless of age im sure being a dad and stepdad he knows what he is doing. They can all get ready together x

Sarah Lockey
Sarah Lockey 7 Jun 2018

With his dad and brother

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Doesn't matter what age he is he's his dad I'm pretty sure he'll be fine staying with his dad.....all my 3 boys stayed with their dad the night before they got ready together an I got ready with our little girl an other bridesmaids. one of the boys ended up with odd socks on but what's a sock when your getting married lol.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Id say let him have a lads night with his dad and bro if he is old enough, will really make him feel park of it allx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Let the boys go together and the girls together. If he's his dad if shouldn't matter what age he is. If he's going to be a handful then he's better off with dad so he's not around the make up and hot straighteners ect. Also you don't want sticky hands on your dress x x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

With the boys

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Our sons stayed with their dad and our little girl stayed with me

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Our son will be 3 when we get married & he’ll be staying with his dad & brother (11) while my daughter (15) will stay with me

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Depends what his role is, I have a 12 year old from a previous relationship, he is staying with my partner the night before because his role is usher/ring barer. Our son and daughter together are with me the night before because they are flower girl and page boy so will be walking in front of me.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

We get married in a few months our son will be 2 1/2, hes staying at home with his Dad and being 'a big boy' getting ready with the Grooms party whilst myself, our daughter and bridesmaids are staying away the night before and all getting ready together on the morning of the wedding x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Our little girl will be 13 months when we get married and she is staying the night before with her daddy. It’s personal preference. The reason for this is that our wedding is all at one venue. I have to be there at 9 and my h2b doesn’t need to arrive until 1 so our daughter would probably be happier and more comfortable being at home with him

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

My little boy is 13 months he’s staying with his daddy tomorrow night whilst I go to venue with the girls and baby niece for prep

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

His dad of course boys night xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

I had my boys with the men

Vanessa clarke
Vanessa clarke 7 Jun 2018

what we are doing, my boys 7 and 2 with their dad my daughter and 3 step daughters staying with me 😊x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

I would say boys together!

Lucy Glew
Lucy Glew 7 Jun 2018

The lads 👍

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

I’d say with his dad and let him have a lads and dads night! My boys are staying with my partner abs his girls are hopefully staying with me

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

Both my boys stayed with my husband and one isn't biologically his... They loved the lads night!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jun 2018

With his Dad. They can have a boys night. And you and your daughter can have a girly pamper evening

Hayley Muir
Hayley Muir 7 Jun 2018

Boys go with the grooms party :)

Nadia Elizabeth
Nadia Elizabeth 9 Jun 2018

How about let him decide? Ask him.x.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Jun 2018

Depends what he's doing both mine and my ex husband's daughters stayed with me because they were my bridesmaids but it might be nice to let him be one of the boys too :) I don't know how old he is but you could also ask him where he'd like to stay

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Jun 2018

My older boys stayed with my husband my youngest stayed with me. He was 9 but was also walking down the aisle with me. Our older boys ushers so it made sense x

Angela Cowan
Angela Cowan 17 Jun 2018

Yeah I'd say let him be one of the lads xx

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