Kate Phillips
Kate Phillips 27 May 2018

Here’s one that will make you think: on our invites if the guests have a...

Here’s one that will make you think: on our invites if the guests have a dog, we put the doggie on there as well. I see dogs as the same as children, if you can bring a kid to a wedding why not a dog. Are your guests bringing children or furry children?

39 Comments
Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 27 May 2018

I confess this wouldn't be my choice but each to their own.

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 27 May 2018

Hi I love animals but as I have allergies no pets but we have two children attending :)

Kayleigh Thomson
Kayleigh Thomson 29 May 2018

I love this idea but I would just be worried that the dogs wouldn't get a long and it would be a nightmare. So we will just be having our dog there

Sharon  Fowles
Sharon Fowles 29 May 2018

No i wouldnt as i know my soon to be niece is scared of dogs.. & Not every1 has a well behaved dog, would not want them fighting or trying to mate etc..

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Would they be at the reception to. Doesnt make sense to me.

Amy Eager
Amy Eager 29 May 2018

Absolutely not....

Sammy Eldridge
Sammy Eldridge 29 May 2018

Personally I think that sounds horrendous. A lot of people don’t like, are allergic to or even scared of dogs.
Unless you’re having a very small wedding, where you’re sure everyone loves dogs then I’d forget it.

Anne-Marie Johnstone
Anne-Marie Johnstone 29 May 2018

Nope

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

The dogs will be shagging, biting each other, humping legs. Sounds very entertaining

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Some dogs are better behaved than kids!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I'm having neither!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I honestly couldn't imagine anything worse! I'm terrified of dogs, and if someone I knew put this on an invite, I wouldn't go!

Equally, I have a young daughter and totally understand it when people say they don't want kids at their wedding.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I love dogs, and a few guests are dog owners, but I wouldn't for a second invite a dog to my wedding xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

No kids, no dogs! I'm allergic and terrified of dogs so 8 couldn't imagine anything less appealing than going to a party with dogs in, I would have to go home and miss the wedding!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

We are having kids as our close friends and family have little ones. I want my little pooch to come along to the wedding in the afternoon for a stretch of her legs. We will see if I get my way!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Our own dog will be attending, but we aren't including anybody else's. Dog politics can be very complicated and you never know how well they will get along! I think the point that others have made about allergies and phobias is well made. We've been sure to let all our suppliers know that we have a dog who will be at the event. Plus the fact that the dogs need to go somewhere while everybody is eating, and you can't just stick them all in a room together and leave them! Venue may also have limitations on numbers of dogs.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Our dogs are present at our wedding but we have measures in place so they don't pester guests

Lindsay Coombes
Lindsay Coombes 29 May 2018

I would probably say dogs over children 😂 wish had thought of this!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I wouldn’t attend, purely I hate animals x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I love that!

Ann-Marie Lamey
Ann-Marie Lamey 29 May 2018

Children yes cause I have a young niece and nephew and my close friends and relatives have children. Dogs no if I had my dog with us and my in laws 2 dogs were there 2 I’d b laughing @ points I shouldn’t b cz there all nuts when they get together!! Especially the 2 older ones

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Does the venue allow dogs, it may be a hygiene issue. Not everyone likes dogs and there is also the issue of allergies, I worked with a lad who was so allergic to my dog that he couldn't even come into my house let alone be in the same room as my dog before his eyes swelled up and he couldn't breathe. I am a dog lover (got 2 of my own) but I would hate the idea of tripping over dogs all day and what happens if they start to fight with each other, I am sure you wouldn't want someone having a trip to A&E after trying to separate fighting dogs.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

No dogs, I wouldn’t want my guests having to leave the party for there dog to do there business. I love animals and have even got my own but think this is a no on the biggest day of my life.

Catriona White
Catriona White 29 May 2018

Eek. You don’t know how well those dogs will get on! If a lot of people brought dogs I can imagine a lot of barking and even fights. Sounds risky tbh. Bit to mention people who are allergic to or scared if dogs or the fact that one owner or other would need to constantly supervise (even the best behaved dogs can be a challenge to eat out with trust me I know).

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Love this idea! X

Natasha Luck
Natasha Luck 29 May 2018

I absolutely love dogs and have a labrador, but it doesn’t sound too wise to me unless you know everyone likes dogs and isn’t allergic, also taking them out to do their business, feeding them, will they get on with all the others, muddy paws? It just seems like a dog day care rather than a wedding and will everyone be looking at and worrying about their dogs rather than your big day?

Kate Phillips
Kate Phillips 29 May 2018

This is what I have done, and in response to allergies or phobias - I wouldn’t invite anyone with these, as everyone knows my dog is my baby and there’s no way she wouldn’t be with me all day. So they shouldn’t expect an invited. Im pretty ruthless and blunt! I’m only having 50 people we have small families and my friends are all dogs! (Thats my job I run a doggie Daycare) all the invited dogs know each other very well so I have no worries :) I would personally rather take my dog out for poop than dance to the YMCA! I regularly take Bella out to eat with us and she much better behaved than most children!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Well, it really depends on the venue and whether they're allowed! I love dogs but not everyone does, plus some people have allergies...also knowing our family dog he would rather be at home than sitting around at a wedding...if he's in an unfamiliar place and is left to sit there he barks constantly and that would drive everyone mad!

Kate Phillips
Kate Phillips 29 May 2018

Also it wouldn’t be my wedding without the dogs there they are part of the family

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Is your venue allowing it? Because most places only allow assistance animals

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Tony Stephenson Marie Poyton why didn't we think of this?

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

I love this idea! Iv been engaged for 6 years and one thing putting me off is a want a small registry office wedding or elope and neither of which my furry baby can be part of so just havent done it. Hes num 1 on the guest list . I understand what people mean about the dogs not getting on, but im sure the owners will know if they should bring them or not.

Kate Phillips
Kate Phillips 29 May 2018

We chose our venue because it is fully dog friendly - that was the selling point for us

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 29 May 2018

Hardly any kids and certainly no dogs! I’m a dog lover but the venue would not allow it!

Laura Osborne
Laura Osborne 30 May 2018

not my kind of day but each to their own 😊

Rhian Priest-Dibben
Rhian Priest-Dibben 30 May 2018

If i had a dog, my venue allows it, so i would bring it. But wouldn't trust other peoples dogs to come.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 30 May 2018

I'd rather have the dogs to be honest. They're usually much better behaved than children

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 30 May 2018

Guests won't be-able to bring dogs to my wedding. It's at the zoo! But there's plenty other animals there!!

Lauren Rowe
Lauren Rowe 3 Jun 2018

I’d worry about guests asking about their snake/rat/parrot/micro pig etc. etc. etc. Where does it end? And more so, why does it end there?

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