Hi me and my fiance are looking to set our date... has anyone ever had more than one MOH? I don't know how to choose between my 2 best friends, and they're both best friends too and we all know each other through work so was wondering if anyone else has had 2?
Have as many as you want. If one of them is married you could say one of them is a matron of honour and the other a maid of honour. X
It's your wedding you can have as many as you like xx
I've got two :) same situation. It's working well so far but we haven't gotten very far in the planning yet. I'd just make sure they both know - maybe tell them together?
I didnt want to choose between my best friends and didn't want it to land on one person's shoulders so I'm not having a MOH all 3 are bridesmaids and each is taking a role the MOH would do
I've got 2 and my h2b has 2 best men, I would never be able to pick 1 out of my 2 so there was no doubt about having 2, so whatever you want it's your day xxx
I have one MOH and my fiancé has 3 best men so I would go for 2. There is no rule as such for it, after all it is your day xxxx
Yup. My sister and my best mate were my head honcho's xx
I have 2 bridesmaids as i couldnt chose between them. Both have equal responsibility and in put. X
I’m having 2 but neither of them are bridesmaids. Having my best friends as maids of honour and then our 2 sisters as bridesmaids. It’s your wedding you do whatever you like! ️ xx
It's your wedding and your choice who's to say you can't have 2 x
Do what you want, it's your day if you want 2 go for it, just enjoy it,️
Same here, my 2 best friends are my bridesmaids and not named either of them MOH. They both support me equally xx
Have as many as you like, I know a few men who've had more than one best man so I don't see why you can't have more than one MOH, my SIL is having me as MOH and her sister as Chief Bridesmaid as she's not married but it's essentially the same thing x
I have two MOH!! (and a group of bridesmaids)... It's been really great to have their support and opinions throughout
I’ve got two and we have two best men xx
My friend had 2 me nd her other best friend we shared the hen night duties worked well
None of my ladies are really MOH. We're just enjoying the day together. I've got 3 bridesmaids
Have as many as you want, after all, this is your day, do it your way.
I'm having 2 MOHs, my best friend and my sister. No bridesmaids but 2 'usherettes'. And my H2b is having 2 best men, his 2 grown up sons ☺. You can do whatever you want. It's your wedding!
I had both my sisters as my bridesmaids/MOH/ decorators etc
My fiancé’s best friend is my MOH, she’s now my best friend and my chief bitch in life is my chief bridesmaid ️ Korey Higgs, Stephanie Swan
Have as many as you want. I’m not having one at all, just my four daughters as bridesmaids.
I've got 2 MOH my sister and my best friend plus little bridesmaids have as many as you want it's your day xx
Either have two or have none. What ever you want. It's your day!
I couldn’t choose so am having MoH and CB xx
I'm having two MoH 1 to get emotional with me and the other to keep us from crying too much lol Caroline Nutting Helen Black
My husband had 2 best men x
I Don’t see why not, my h2b has 2 best men for our wedding in 3 months, he couldn’t choose between them, so I say go for it, it’s your day! x
I'm having 3 maids of honour as all 3 are married. Have what you want x
Your wedding, your choice! I have Team Bride , no hierarchy, all have different strengths to offer
My best friend decided not to have a MOH so no one got upset but we all had a defined role
I'm having 2. We are a group of 3 and I can't chose. We are even having our own dance too
I didn’t have a MOH as I couldn’t choose between my besties so they were 3 bridesmaids
I have a maid of honour who is my sister who will do the signing the certificate and the front of house stuff and then a chief bridesmaid who will be my right hand and carry out behind the scenes stuff including being sassy for me 😂
I am having my 2 sisters as MOH as I didn't want to choose between them. I don't really have any close girl friends and my best friend is my fiancé
I'm having 2 moh's.. One is my mum because she's my absolute best friend and the other is a super duper close family friend x
I’m getting married on Wednesday and have my two besties as my MOH’s since I didn’t want to pick between them! It’s your day and there’s no hard and fast rules. Super excited to have them both by my side! 😁 xx
I have a maid of honour and a matron of honour (matron is married) 😀😀
What you could do is ask them both to bebridesmaids and then see who is more helpful/commited and ask her to be your maid of honor. There are alotof pots on here saying they arent interested ect and this way you will be able to see who is x
I’ve got 2 bridesmaids. No MOH, all three of us are best friends and I couldn’t chose between, didn’t even come to mind as they are both equally important to me. Might be easier if I call them my maids of honour, as I’m having 4 little bridesmaids. 💖 xx
I've 6 bridesmaids (sister, sister in law, 2 nieces and 2 best friends) not having a MOH as I want them to all be equal
I couldn't chose 1 so all my 4 bms are equal parts bm/moh
I don't have a maid of honour as couldn't decide between mine. No one has said anything and are more than happy.
I have 3 very close friends and my daughter. I have asked the girl who helped me n h2b get together to wear a corsage on her wrist (I'm not having flowers) to make her stand out. One of them is partner to best man and h2b beat friend and then a mutual friend. It's your day. No rules to follow just have your perfect day. My kids are walking me down the aisle not my dad as we want to join him together as a family.
Of course, can have as many as you like. If it's easier, could call them both Chief Bridesmaids. (Say not having a MOH)
I have my best friend and my sister