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UKbride Member Request 25 May 2018

Hi me and my fiance are looking to set our date... has anyone ever had more...

Hi me and my fiance are looking to set our date... has anyone ever had more than one MOH? I don't know how to choose between my 2 best friends, and they're both best friends too and we all know each other through work so was wondering if anyone else has had 2?

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UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Have as many as you want. If one of them is married you could say one of them is a matron of honour and the other a maid of honour. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

It's your wedding you can have as many as you like xx

Anita Eales
Anita Eales 25 May 2018

I've got two :) same situation. It's working well so far but we haven't gotten very far in the planning yet. I'd just make sure they both know - maybe tell them together?

Joanne Lettin
Joanne Lettin 25 May 2018

I didnt want to choose between my best friends and didn't want it to land on one person's shoulders so I'm not having a MOH all 3 are bridesmaids and each is taking a role the MOH would do

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I've got 2 and my h2b has 2 best men, I would never be able to pick 1 out of my 2 so there was no doubt about having 2, so whatever you want it's your day xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I have one MOH and my fiancé has 3 best men so I would go for 2. There is no rule as such for it, after all it is your day xxxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Yup. My sister and my best mate were my head honcho's xx

Amee Goulding
Amee Goulding 25 May 2018

I have 2 bridesmaids as i couldnt chose between them. Both have equal responsibility and in put. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I’m having 2 but neither of them are bridesmaids. Having my best friends as maids of honour and then our 2 sisters as bridesmaids. It’s your wedding you do whatever you like! ️ xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

It's your wedding and your choice who's to say you can't have 2 x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Do what you want, it's your day if you want 2 go for it, just enjoy it,️

Tasha Hodgson
Tasha Hodgson 25 May 2018

Laura Rose
Laura Rose 25 May 2018

Same here, my 2 best friends are my bridesmaids and not named either of them MOH. They both support me equally xx

Laura Roberts
Laura Roberts 25 May 2018

Have as many as you like, I know a few men who've had more than one best man so I don't see why you can't have more than one MOH, my SIL is having me as MOH and her sister as Chief Bridesmaid as she's not married but it's essentially the same thing x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I have two MOH!! (and a group of bridesmaids)... It's been really great to have their support and opinions throughout

Carol Boyle
Carol Boyle 25 May 2018

I’ve got two and we have two best men xx

Nia Williams
Nia Williams 25 May 2018

My friend had 2 me nd her other best friend we shared the hen night duties worked well

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

None of my ladies are really MOH. We're just enjoying the day together. I've got 3 bridesmaids

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Have as many as you want, after all, this is your day, do it your way.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Amanda Herron
Amanda Herron 25 May 2018

I'm having 2 MOHs, my best friend and my sister. No bridesmaids but 2 'usherettes'. And my H2b is having 2 best men, his 2 grown up sons ☺. You can do whatever you want. It's your wedding!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I had both my sisters as my bridesmaids/MOH/ decorators etc

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

My fiancé’s best friend is my MOH, she’s now my best friend and my chief bitch in life is my chief bridesmaid ️ Korey Higgs, Stephanie Swan

Rebecca Sullivan
Rebecca Sullivan 25 May 2018

Have as many as you want. I’m not having one at all, just my four daughters as bridesmaids.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I've got 2 MOH my sister and my best friend plus little bridesmaids have as many as you want it's your day xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

Either have two or have none. What ever you want. It's your day!

Elese Helen
Elese Helen 25 May 2018

I couldn’t choose so am having MoH and CB xx

Amber Bardell
Amber Bardell 25 May 2018

I'm having two MoH 1 to get emotional with me and the other to keep us from crying too much lol Caroline Nutting Helen Black

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

My husband had 2 best men x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I Don’t see why not, my h2b has 2 best men for our wedding in 3 months, he couldn’t choose between them, so I say go for it, it’s your day! x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I'm having 3 maids of honour as all 3 are married. Have what you want x

Kim Domican
Kim Domican 25 May 2018

Your wedding, your choice! I have Team Bride , no hierarchy, all have different strengths to offer

Hazel Chapman
Hazel Chapman 25 May 2018

My best friend decided not to have a MOH so no one got upset but we all had a defined role

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I'm having 2. We are a group of 3 and I can't chose. We are even having our own dance too

Danika O'Connor
Danika O'Connor 25 May 2018

I didn’t have a MOH as I couldn’t choose between my besties so they were 3 bridesmaids

Bethan Harrop
Bethan Harrop 25 May 2018

I have a maid of honour who is my sister who will do the signing the certificate and the front of house stuff and then a chief bridesmaid who will be my right hand and carry out behind the scenes stuff including being sassy for me 😂

Victoria Jones
Victoria Jones 25 May 2018

I am having my 2 sisters as MOH as I didn't want to choose between them. I don't really have any close girl friends and my best friend is my fiancé

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 25 May 2018

I'm having 2 moh's.. One is my mum because she's my absolute best friend and the other is a super duper close family friend x

Luisa Muratore
Luisa Muratore 25 May 2018

I’m getting married on Wednesday and have my two besties as my MOH’s since I didn’t want to pick between them! It’s your day and there’s no hard and fast rules. Super excited to have them both by my side! 😁 xx

Jody Marie
Jody Marie 25 May 2018

I have a maid of honour and a matron of honour (matron is married) 😀😀

Laura-Jane Thurlow
Laura-Jane Thurlow 26 May 2018

What you could do is ask them both to bebridesmaids and then see who is more helpful/commited and ask her to be your maid of honor. There are alotof pots on here saying they arent interested ect and this way you will be able to see who is x

Claire Woodward
Claire Woodward 26 May 2018

I’ve got 2 bridesmaids. No MOH, all three of us are best friends and I couldn’t chose between, didn’t even come to mind as they are both equally important to me. Might be easier if I call them my maids of honour, as I’m having 4 little bridesmaids. 💖 xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 May 2018

I've 6 bridesmaids (sister, sister in law, 2 nieces and 2 best friends) not having a MOH as I want them to all be equal

Jordan Alexandra
Jordan Alexandra 26 May 2018

I couldn't chose 1 so all my 4 bms are equal parts bm/moh

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 27 May 2018

I don't have a maid of honour as couldn't decide between mine. No one has said anything and are more than happy.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 27 May 2018

I have 3 very close friends and my daughter. I have asked the girl who helped me n h2b get together to wear a corsage on her wrist (I'm not having flowers) to make her stand out. One of them is partner to best man and h2b beat friend and then a mutual friend. It's your day. No rules to follow just have your perfect day. My kids are walking me down the aisle not my dad as we want to join him together as a family.

Rhian Priest-Dibben
Rhian Priest-Dibben 29 May 2018

Of course, can have as many as you like. If it's easier, could call them both Chief Bridesmaids. (Say not having a MOH)

Jaz Nokes
Jaz Nokes 7 Jun 2018

I have my best friend and my sister

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