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UKbride Member Request 17 May 2018

We’re not getting married till 2020 but I've already decided I want my...

We’re not getting married till 2020 but I've already decided I want my sister and best friend as bridesmaids. However my fiance has 3 sisters. They know they're not going to be bridesmaids. Should I ask them or not? We’re not close and i dont really get on with one if them and the other is 10. My fiancee is genuinely fine about this but is it awkward?

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Catherine Ann Sharpe
Catherine Ann Sharpe 19 May 2018

Don't ask people just to make them happy. It isn't their day. I have chosen the closest people I have and none of them are my fiances relatives, I felt awkward to begin with but that's drifted.
Just don't do things only to please other people!

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