We’re not getting married till 2020 but I've already decided I want my sister and best friend as bridesmaids. However my fiance has 3 sisters. They know they're not going to be bridesmaids. Should I ask them or not? We’re not close and i dont really get on with one if them and the other is 10. My fiancee is genuinely fine about this but is it awkward?
Don't ask people just to make them happy. It isn't their day. I have chosen the closest people I have and none of them are my fiances relatives, I felt awkward to begin with but that's drifted.
Just don't do things only to please other people!