I want to ask my Fiance's family who they would like to invite to the wedding reception as my parents are inviting some friends. The only problem is that his mum is really good friends with my mum's cousin, we don't have anything to do with her or her family, she hasn't even told my daughter that she's related to her, she just thinks she's nanny's (my MIL 2b) friend. My question is how do a I ask his family if there is anyone they want to invite without starting arguments about it? TIA ????
Why not just ask them who they want to invite and if she is on the list you can explain the situation, I’m sure the lady in question will not expect to be invited so it might not be an issue?
Just specify not her