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UKbride Member Request 26 Apr 2018

It's only 4 days until our wedding and my partner has become really distant,...

It's only 4 days until our wedding and my partner has become really distant, gets really snappy when I ask him to do things to help out and hardly speaks to me. I am going to speak to him tonight but wondered if anyone else has had the same?

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UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

He’s probably nervous, I really wouldn’t read into it too much. Is he doing a speech? He may be nervous about that I know my husband was really stressed about getting his perfect x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

Me and my now husband never fight but the week coming up to our wedding we fought like cat and dog. It's a stressful time and everyone handles it different! X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

probably nerves

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

A couple of days before my wedding and the day before I couldn't do anything right and he was shouting, swearing, screaming and even walked out at one point!! We were both so stressed that when it was over it was completely forgotten, I think its them getting nervous and they're dealing with it in their own way x

Chelsea-Anne Horrocks
Chelsea-Anne Horrocks 26 Apr 2018

Maybe try and have an evening where your not focused on the wedding and just enjoying each other’s company, he’s probably just stressed/nervous.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

He's probably just nervous. It's a stressful time.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

Give him a big hug n tell him just how much you love him ....DONT mention the wedding .
I expect it has just hit him with the enormity of what you are about to do

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

Maybe it’s nerves men don’t like to show emotion sometimes but he is probs running through his speech in his head and nerves setting in he might not want to talk bout it but if he does just reassure him your doing it together xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 26 Apr 2018

Sounds a bit stressed to me. Take a break, I know it's not easy. But even half a day with no wedding talk is better than nothing. He could be worried about lots of things. Speech, ceremony all sorts. Good luck. Xx

Gwyneth Bland
Gwyneth Bland 26 Apr 2018

Maybe let your Husband to be have time away from you ,so he can do something relaxing. Even a night or two at a cheap hotel relaxing.

Michaela Sharp
Michaela Sharp 27 Apr 2018

Have you had chance to speak to him yet? Hope things go well X

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 30 Apr 2018

I wouldn’t worry about it . I would not mention the wedding my h2b seems very uninterested when it comes to the wedding I don’t take it personally

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