It's only 4 days until our wedding and my partner has become really distant, gets really snappy when I ask him to do things to help out and hardly speaks to me. I am going to speak to him tonight but wondered if anyone else has had the same?
He’s probably nervous, I really wouldn’t read into it too much. Is he doing a speech? He may be nervous about that I know my husband was really stressed about getting his perfect x
Me and my now husband never fight but the week coming up to our wedding we fought like cat and dog. It's a stressful time and everyone handles it different! X
A couple of days before my wedding and the day before I couldn't do anything right and he was shouting, swearing, screaming and even walked out at one point!! We were both so stressed that when it was over it was completely forgotten, I think its them getting nervous and they're dealing with it in their own way x
Maybe try and have an evening where your not focused on the wedding and just enjoying each other’s company, he’s probably just stressed/nervous.
He's probably just nervous. It's a stressful time.
Give him a big hug n tell him just how much you love him ....DONT mention the wedding .
I expect it has just hit him with the enormity of what you are about to do
Maybe it’s nerves men don’t like to show emotion sometimes but he is probs running through his speech in his head and nerves setting in he might not want to talk bout it but if he does just reassure him your doing it together xxx
Sounds a bit stressed to me. Take a break, I know it's not easy. But even half a day with no wedding talk is better than nothing. He could be worried about lots of things. Speech, ceremony all sorts. Good luck. Xx
Maybe let your Husband to be have time away from you ,so he can do something relaxing. Even a night or two at a cheap hotel relaxing.
Have you had chance to speak to him yet? Hope things go well X
I wouldn’t worry about it . I would not mention the wedding my h2b seems very uninterested when it comes to the wedding I don’t take it personally