UKbride Member Request 5 Apr 2018

How have you set out your top table? We have our 9 month old baby, both sets...

How have you set out your top table? We have our 9 month old baby, both sets of parents, best man and maid of honour. I have seen the traditional way is grooms mother next to brides father but Im not sure I like that set up.

Katrina Anderson
Katrina Anderson 6 Apr 2018

We sat our parents together at the top table. Had groom, grooms parents then grooms men on one side and bride, brides parents and bridesmaids on other side. We wanted everyone to be comfortable and happy.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

I had the two sets of parents together, my Grandma with my parents and then husband and I in the middle ️ x

Suzanne Hunton
Suzanne Hunton 6 Apr 2018

I always think Aleister Crowley, dark magician and renowned mystic, was asked this same question when he came up with ‘Do what thou wilt’ 😉

If it ain’t illegal, you do you...

Sharon  Fowles
Sharon Fowles 6 Apr 2018

Were not having a top table or even a table plan... We are going for a very informal do...

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

Our top table is: my sister (chief bridesmaid), our baby boy, my mum, my dad, me, hubby, hubbys Mum, hubbys dad, hubbys brother (best man) xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

We are having a sweetheart table, just me and the groom!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

We had a top table as such but it was just a round table so we were a part of the room and no one was sat there just looking at us. It was very laid back with us, our parents and our children.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

We had my parents and step parents next to me and his parents and our two children next to him. Our bridesmaids etc were all at tables in front of us

Hollie Johnstone
Hollie Johnstone 6 Apr 2018

We're also not doing a top table! Sweetheart table for just me and my (then!) husband to actually get some down time during the day to chat and eat and enjoy the moment :)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 6 Apr 2018

We are having us 2, our daughter and both sets of parents that's it. Maid of honour is my sister and she has 5 kids so she needs to be sat with them and so it doesn't look odd we've agreed the best man can sit with his fiancee seen as she doesn't know anyone at the wedding!

Amanda Cosgrove
Amanda Cosgrove 7 Apr 2018

Hi I have 10 on my top table I done it differently as my father has passed away xx

Kerry Jones
Kerry Jones 7 Apr 2018

We started off with both parents, MOH, best man, bride and. Groom.... however 8/21 people will make the room very empty 😂... now having in order: FOB, best man, groom, bride, MOH, MoB. Thought it would look nice all female one side all male the other.

Bethan Roberts
Bethan Roberts 7 Apr 2018

Mum, dad, daughter 1, me, groom, daughter 2, groom mum, groom dad

That’s ours I think xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Apr 2018

I had it best man wife then best man ,father of groom , groom , bride, father of bride , mother of bride , are son (who came and sat in middle of me and my husband haha )and then my chief bridesmaid x

Amee Goulding
Amee Goulding 7 Apr 2018

We have 11 on our top table
Me, H2B, daughter, both sets of parents and our brothers and there partners
As i don't have many family coming i didnt want my brother being on a table with people he didnt know, so we put my brother on top table so to even it out my H2Bs brother is as well.

Then a table for rest bridal party ( bridesmaids and groomsmen)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Apr 2018

We had the traditional set up and it worked was nice to mix them up so they mingled a bit. We didnt have MoH and best man at the top table though as he had 3 best men and couldn't choose xD

Laura Roberts
Laura Roberts 7 Apr 2018

We had step MoG, FoG/best man, MoG, groom, bride, FoB, our 9 month old son, MoB & MoH x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Apr 2018

Have it how you like no need to stick to tradition

Catherine Wright
Catherine Wright 7 Apr 2018

We had my grandma, then my mum, dad, Me, my then 10month old daughter in high chair, my (now ex) husband, his dad, then his mum.
The best man and MOH sat with their own families at the other tables

Karen Cottis
Karen Cottis 7 Apr 2018

We r having grooms Dad, grooms mum our youngest son, groom, bride, eldest son, brides mum, brides dad. Our top table only fits 8 so moh and best man are sitting with their families on tables directly off of top table so that they are close (best man has 5 kids so sure his wife will be grateful for him to be sitting with the family) x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Apr 2018

We have best man, grooms dad, grooms mum, groom, bride, brides mum, brides dad, maid of honour.

Lucy Glew
Lucy Glew 8 Apr 2018

6. Me my mum and dad, h2b his mum and Grandma 🙂

Rose Breeds
Rose Breeds 8 Apr 2018

Do what feels best for you. My top table didnt have any parents on just me and hubby, best man, 3 bridesmaids xx

Michelle Croxford
Michelle Croxford 8 Apr 2018

We’re having a round top table as there will be 11 people..., the table can seat 12..., but long top table can only seat 10..wanted my partners children and my children on top table ,6 between us😳.., and then best man and his wife and grooms mom.. x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Apr 2018

We had. Best man, my eldest daughter, my hubby, me, my youngest daughter and MOH.

Jordan Alexandra
Jordan Alexandra 8 Apr 2018

our kids will be 3 and 6 when we get married. we will have them next to us but next to our parents so they can help out for toilet runs etc
so left to right will be
grooms father
grooms mother
my son
my daughter
my dad
my mum
my mums partner

Kirstine Blackwell
Kirstine Blackwell 9 Apr 2018

ive got step parents, so two mums two dads, so ive put them all on the top table, i think its personal choice, bride and groom in the middle, and who ever else you want. its your day, your choice. just enjoy it xx

Caroline Larner
Caroline Larner 16 Apr 2018

There is a traditional way to do it and is what etiquette dictates but personally I would do what suits you and your family. Don't worry too much about tradition!


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