Kirstine Blackwell
Kirstine Blackwell 16 Mar 2018

Do you have to have hymns at a church wedding ?

Do you have to have hymns at a church wedding ?

23 Comments
Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 17 Mar 2018

Hi Yes :)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

I didn’t have hymns. We chose our own music and took it to the church on a cd and they played it for us. So we had songs meaningful to us.

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

I didn't have hymns or a reading xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

If it's in Catholic Church then yes

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

My parents had their own songs :) they also didn't have prayers d

Lynsey Britton
Lynsey Britton 17 Mar 2018

Yes 3

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

It's optional at the church we're at I think it depends what the minister allows xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

We had a mixture hymns abs more modern music and that was way back in 2000

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

nope we didnt have any was allowed our own music and we got married in 2016 x

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

Yes, we have to chose 3 x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

We have to have 3 hymns and 4 pieces of music, but the pieces of music don't have to be religious but do have to be vetted by the vicar.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

Not unless you want. .vicars/priests might allow music of your choice if you have a cd player

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

Totally depends on your church so you'll want to ask them.
Ours said no recorded music, had to be organ played and some songs just don't sound good on an organ x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

Speak to the vicar. We got married in Code church. We got lucky and when I asked any questions like "do we have to have 3 hymns?" "Do the readings need to be from the bible?" Every response was "you can have whatever you want" we had 2 hymns (1 was a Christmas carol - got married late Dec) and 2 readings, not from the bible. Just ask. They may veto some songs/hymns due to content though. We were thinking Lord of the Dance, but that got vetoed which was fine x

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

Up to the church I believe. Ours is great and we can have what we want :)

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

May I ask why you wouldn't want hymns at a church wedding? The hymns are beautiful.

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

We have to have hymns but I think it depends on each church xx

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UKbride Administrator 17 Mar 2018

I had a church wedding and we sang it must be love by madness and you’re my best friend by queen. The vicar said it was the best wedding he’d been part of so far because he was fed up of people choosing the same hymns

Rebecca Bramfitt
Rebecca Bramfitt 17 Mar 2018

Yeah, well my church I think you have to (CofE) but I like that! It's fun and joyful singing hymns

Kristina Myers
Kristina Myers 17 Mar 2018

Yep. Get some church bangers requested.

Donna Milner
Donna Milner 18 Mar 2018

No hymes at ours we have picked three songs x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 18 Mar 2018

I honestly don't understand why you would get married in a church if you dont want to respect the traditions.

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Romy Bettles
Romy Bettles 19 Mar 2018

Ask your local priest we have to have 2 hymns and one bible reading at ours x

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