I know this is probably an issue i need to work out by myself, but i thought I'd ask just in case someone has a similar issue. I have 4 girls in mind i want to have as bridesmaids, however 2 of them haven't gotten along since college, do I ask one and not the other, or both and risk them ruining my day..?
Hi don't ask either of them then they can't be blamed for ruining your day :)
If they were true friends, they would pull it together and play nice for your big day and the lead up to it! If they can't do that then there's no chance of them being in the wedding party.