Tanya Alexander
Tanya Alexander 20 Feb 2018

Hi Brides the show “don’t tell the beide” would you allow your grooms...

Hi Brides the show “don’t tell the beide” would you allow your grooms to plan your whole wedding? I would . Not because of a free wedding. But I could see him do something very very romantic.

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 20 Feb 2018

Oh no ... definitely not. I could think of nothing worse.

Steph V
Steph V 20 Feb 2018

Definitely not, he can’t organise himself let alone a wedding haha😂

hannah foster
hannah foster 21 Feb 2018

I would. I don't like making decisions and he has really good taste 🤣 xxx

Sara Hughes
Sara Hughes 21 Feb 2018

It's fake they don't actually get married but yes I would let my h2b plan our wedding xx

Viki Steele
Viki Steele 21 Feb 2018

I would let my hubby to be to do it xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

The show would never let that happen - they force stupid ideas. I wouldn't have an issue outside of the show though

Danielle Ryde
Danielle Ryde 21 Feb 2018

I couldn't I'm too much of a perfectionist and if he gets it wrong I would go mad

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

I would of let mine.... only because his mother wouldn’t let him mess it up!

Kayleigh Davidson
Kayleigh Davidson 21 Feb 2018

Previous bride and grooms have come out and said the production team mess with things so you cant do exactly what you want, your h2b might plan somthing amazing but it wouldnt happen as he wanted. Its all about making good tv.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

No, he has a terrible memory, he’d book it and instantly forget when it was

Ruby Boardman
Ruby Boardman 21 Feb 2018

I would and up getting married at Manchester United 🙈

Sharon  Fowles
Sharon Fowles 21 Feb 2018

Nope, Only cause i am not good with surprises & secrets...

laura barker
laura barker 21 Feb 2018

My fiance does that for a living so I know he would get it spot on but doubt they would let him on the show unless he was planning some mad theme 😂

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

See, he would try to do everything to make me happy. So would think, hmmmmm what does she like? Penguins. We would get married in the penguin enclosure in the zoo, dressed as penguins, with a penguin ring bearer. I had a penguin bride and groom as my cake toppers, but that's as far as I went lol. He'd just use the knowledge of my love for penguins as the fail safe and run with it...

Shakira Badwal
Shakira Badwal 21 Feb 2018

It's not a legal wedding, so you I would let him.

Emma Williams
Emma Williams 21 Feb 2018

No because they aren't legally binding

Zoe Johnson
Zoe Johnson 21 Feb 2018

I would end up in a chewbacca costume and marry darth vader or a wonderwoman and batman......so yeah id let him 😍 lol x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

I wouldn't because while my other half is amazing and supportive and knows me better than anyone he would find it a struggle having to deal with all of that in such a short time and I wouldn't want to put him under that much stress or pressure. Plus our wedding day is about us and we've been enjoying making joint decisions on everything :-)

Charlotte Mansell
Charlotte Mansell 21 Feb 2018

Yea mine did so well planning how he was going to ask me - we are on the same page and it will be 50/50 so far it is - hate it when people say it's "your big day" no it's ours 🙄

Laura Osborne
Laura Osborne 21 Feb 2018

I wouldnt we would end up on a pirate ship drinking rum knowing my h2b 😂 if he had full control it would be alot of laughs not so much love lol 🤣

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

Yes I would; but not on that stupid show. They don't even allow the groom to have the best man they want if it won't make for 'good tv'. They basically have a pre set idea to make the wedding as ridiculous as possible and nothing the groom actually wants goes ahead- particularly the dress. Why let idiot producers make a mockery of your wedding when it isn't even legally binding?!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

I would definitely let my h2b go on it, we are very similar has great taste in wedding dresses he picked 3 for me but doesn't know which one they were all stunning, he wouldn't go ott planning think on that show they get told make it stupid some of the blokes on it have picked nice dresses

Heather Perry
Heather Perry 21 Feb 2018

I think i would, because hes sensible

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

No, I'm too much of a control freak!!
I think deep down he would have done great at everything (maybe forgotten a few minor details here and there) but the dress would have been the most worrying thing. I'm not a dress wearer and it was difficult enough choosing one for myself let alone him having to choose it for me!! We work best as a team and we made plans and choices together :-)

Kari jane Moxon
Kari jane Moxon 21 Feb 2018

I would but not for tv. We have been together 10 years and he finally proposed last month. People ask to see my ring and say, oh it's beautiful and the next thing out of their mouth is did he have any help choosing it? No, he has know me 14 years he should know what I like.

Shelley Rayworth
Shelley Rayworth 21 Feb 2018

Nope he'd have me jumping out of a plane an getting married at Elland road, leeds utd ground x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 21 Feb 2018

I'd prob end up in a dirt track bikers outfit n roll up to Silverstone in my other half track day car complete with roll cage...never would I trust him to plan a wedding alone lol.x

UKbride Member 21 Feb 2018


Paige Warwick
Paige Warwick 21 Feb 2018

it’s a fix anyway. the producers tell the groom what you have to do

Victoria Peacock
Victoria Peacock 21 Feb 2018

I would let Andy White do it but not on there

Tessa Lok
Tessa Lok 22 Feb 2018

My fiancé likes to play safe when he's not sure of the details...I'd probably end up with a nice, albeit bland and theme-free day.

Alexandra L'Oiseau
Alexandra L'Oiseau 22 Feb 2018

I would absolutely trust him to nail it. We both have similar tests and I’m confident he would know what I like and dislike! 😊

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 22 Feb 2018

My husband did 90% of the organisation for our wedding & it was perfect!

Rachel Connell
Rachel Connell 22 Feb 2018

I would love to go on don’t tell the bride, my h2b knows what I like and don’t like an I’m sure he would make it all romantic as he can be such a romantic person when he puts his heart to it. Plus it would mean getting married in 3 weeks time an not having to wait till November 2020. ( just need to set the date but wanting around then)
Watched the one last night (DTTB) the one where she got married at the football ground and then reception in a sports hall, think I would go mad if my h2b done that as I just hate football. But all good fun in the end. Xx

Rhian Priest-Dibben
Rhian Priest-Dibben 22 Feb 2018

100% not, they wouldnt allow it, they cause trouble couples have said they have to make it entertaining not nice...

Deanna Leanne
Deanna Leanne 22 Feb 2018

I would 100% he'd probably through a Disney themed wedding with amazing surprises 😊

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 22 Feb 2018

I would as the ceremony is not binding and it is all fake. So why not? Can do it all over again later.

Hannah Cregan
Hannah Cregan 22 Feb 2018

I would because I think he would do a good job but I have always looked forward to planning my own wedding! I'm planning on it being the only one I have 😂

Claire Woodward
Claire Woodward 22 Feb 2018

I like to think I could trust my h2b to do it right. Proposal in front of the Disneyland Paris castle at sunset on my birthday was incredible, so I think I could trust him!! I’m a lucky girl!!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 22 Feb 2018

Yeah I would have

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 23 Feb 2018

I did let my fiancé plan my wedding as I can’t plan anything and it’s was everything I dreamed of and he made it amazing, he knows me better than I know my self so I know all would work out and he would not do anything horrible, and all I cared about was marrying him so anything else was a bonus xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 23 Feb 2018

No way, takes away all the fun of planning your big day!


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