Ok ladies I would like to know what you are doing the night before your big day. Where are u staying. I want to stay at home with my h2b and our daughter. Partly so I can make sure he goes to bed on time and has a good night sleep but also because I want to spend time with them before a big hectic day the next day. Anyone I say this to say no that's not tradition I've to say at my dad's or hotel. What do you think?
Hi I want my Fiance to stay at our home to but he wants to be traditional and will be staying at a friend's house :)
My Fiance will be staying at our home as he wants a good night's sleep but he will leave in the morning to go to his best man's place. He will not see the dress or anything prior to me arriving at the other end of the aisle.
I'm staying at the hotel with my bridesmaids and my mum the night before.
I will be at home with a house full of people! H2b is staying at his bestmans. I will have my 2 girls, mum, sister, bro-in-law and 2 nephews!
Both my fiance and I are staying at the hotel the night before in seperate rooms. I'm taking my bridal party and the mums for dinner and he's taking his groomsmen and the dads.
Hotel or friend/parents
Staying at my mum and dad’s with my moh
My husband stayed at home with his brother who came to stay with him. He had our boys and I took the girls with me we spent the night at a hotel. Our boys joined us 2 hours before the wedding. Do what you want. Everyone is different. Hope you have a lovely day :)
I'm staying at my parents house with my bridesmaids and my H2B is staying at a hotel next to our venue
Do what you wanna do, most things aren’t tradition anymore, you already live together and have a child, still very happy so do what suits you! I am staying at our venue the night before with my mom and my 2 youngest who will be page boy and flower girl, my eldest will stay with my partner as he is an usher so needs to be there with him on the day, but we are doing it this way because we will have so much to do on the day, I need to get my dress to the venue, meet my hair dresser and mua, take other bits and bobs, so easier to get up early at the venue than at home to get to the venue.
Sod tradition and do what you want. We are both staying at our venue the night before because it's an hour's drive from home, the only reason we have separate rooms is so we both have a room to get ready in the morning of the wedding, if it wasn't for those sorts of logistics we would also be staying together the night before.
Can you not compromise, stay at home together but one of you leave in the morning to get ready else where? X
You're his fiancé, not his mother. Plus, that's what the Best Man is for. My husband stayed at our house with his Best Man and Groomsman while I stayed at my folks. However, whether he gets 4 or 8 hours sleep the adrenaline on the day will keep him going and you'll have too much going on to worry about what time your fiancé got to bed.
It's your day, do what you want. Traditionally, you wouldn't have seen your groom before the wedding, but traditionally, your first time of seeing him would have been at the actual ceremony so you can safely ignore that. Lots of people are not doing that tradition anymore
I'm staying at the venue with my children an h2b is staying at home x
What does it matter if it’s not traditional? If you want to do it then do it. It’s your day x
I'm staying in a local hotel, but only because a) our flat is a little small b) the other half will be getting ready at ours and c) my MIL has already told me there will be no room at theirs.
I will be staying in our venue the night before with my family and hubby 2be will be staying in a hotel with his bestmen .... he doesn’t want to see me the night before the wedding .... you do what’s right for you xx
I’m staying at home and hb2b is going back to his parents the night before the wedding the. Coming back to our friends to get ready while me and all my bridesmaids go to my parents to house to get ready
We've been together 10 years & have 2 kids.... we know what we're getting into & we're not superstitious! So we'll be waking up together at the venue then will get ready separately. Go with what works for you. Ignore what you "should" do & just do what you WANT to do.
We are all staying together at a hotel and even sharing a car to the wedding
We're both staying at the venue the night before most likely together in the same room. All our families will be there too so we'll have breakfast together and then I'll go and get ready separately so he doesn't see the dress
My fiancé will be staying at home with the boys staying at ours and I’m staying at the hotel we are marrying in the night before
I’m staying at a hotel with the bridesmaids and he’s staying at his mums with his best men. It’s totally up to you guys on what you do!
I’m staying at home with my H2B x
I am staying at our venue the night before with my bridesmaids and daughter having a girly night and then we can all get ready together the next day, my partner is staying home with my boys and getting ready there xx
Oh staying at best man's house I'm having most of my bridesmaids sleeping over at mine with my boys and having a pj party
I'm staying at my Mummys. But mainly because I want to relax on the morning of the wedding. If I stay at my own house I'll be stressing about getting everyone else ready first, and then rushing myself. I don't want to be stressed on that morning..
My husband stayed at our house on his own, he went out for dinner with his best man before then had a night to himself, I stayed at my parents house with my parents and a couple of my bridesmaids. We had our church rehearsal the evening before so we had that then we went out separate ways, I actually loved saying goodbye to him and knowing the next time I’ll see him was at the alter xx
I stayed at a lovely spa hotel near my venue with my family. My hubby came up for a swim and stayed for dinner with everyone, then he slept at home by himself x
My fiancé will be staying at home and I’ll be at my parents the night before
We are both staying at the venue the night before but in separate rooms. I’m also having the kids in my room and then he’s having them while I get ready x
I'm staying home with the kids and my h2b is staying at his Mums. I'm having a Chinese and a few drinks with my bridesmaids and some of my family. I'm determined to have a stress free night.
Do what you want
Myself and h2b will be at home together but then we aren't doing a lot traditional, I don't think it really matters these days just do whatever you both want to xx
Do whatever you want hun. Personally I don't know what I will do but I know that I would prefer to spend the night in out own home with him and then him leave early so we can get ready and travel separately x x
Do what you want to Do, you don't have to stick with tradition, it's your day, do what ever makes you happy and if others disagree that's their problem.
Im staying at the hotel where we are getting married, and hes staying at home
It’s your day... We both stayed at the venue the night before had a dinner with the family and then goodnight kiss on the bedroom door and didn’t see him again until he was at the end of my walk!
In staying at our venue with h2b and our daughters. H2b and I are also staying at the venue the night after. Our daughters will stay with family for the night
Im staying at the hotel where we will be married with my MOH but this is mainly to keep the costs down and not worry about transport the morning of the wedding. My H2B will be staying in our house and will be heading to the hotel with my brother and father (as they live next door). My daughter will be staying with my sis and her and my other bridesmaids will all head to the hotel together to get ready. We have the 8 rooms in the hotel as part of our package so will all have our own space to get ready etc. If you want to wake up together do it but i do think it would be less stressful not to be together as youve already said your wanting to make sure HE has enough sleep etc, what about you??
I'm with my other half the night before, we're getting married at 4pm so I'm leaving him at 10am to go to my parents xx
I stayed at home with h2b and our son so we could all have a good night's sleep. He went to his mum and dad's the next morning with our son and I went to our venue to get ready in the bridal suite. He didn't see my dress or me getting ready. Do whatever you feel is best for you. You don't always have to follow old tradition. 🙂
I think it's important that you do you on YOUR big day. Screw tradition If it's not what you want to do. My fiancé and I will be walking down the isle together to the alter which isn't tradition but it's the way we want it to make us happy xx
As you already have a child & live together i don't think it matters.. Traditions dont have to be followed, it is up to you, at end of the day you do whats right for your family, & nothing to do with any1 else...
My mum & dad went from my Nan's where they were living at the time & just had their 48th wedding anniversary.... My h2b is going a hotel because he wants the space to get ready, without me 3bridesmaids & 2flower girls & mother inlaw & 2 step sons getting under his feet... Best wishes for wedding & happy future..
Not sure yet but I might have night before at hotel we are getting married at with my MOH h2b gets to stay home with the 1 and 4 year old! Then brings to me in the morning.
Or I will go to mums with the girls then to hotel for wedding.
I'm staying at home with my h2b and and our kids he's leaving in the morning with kids so I can get ready and everything do it how you want no body else x
We've been together 11 years so we are staying together night before then in the morning I'm going my mum's to get ready. Sod tradition do what you want to do xx
As my venue is down the motorway, i don't want to risk it in morning and going to stay in a local hotel hopefully with my mother
I stayed at our home with my bridesmaids (went out for food and drinks) and husband stayed at his mams. We both went to bed late, both excited and couldn't sleep much but the day still turned out amazing and I say yes to keeping it traditional
It's your day though so do what you want but also make sure your husbands doing what he wants!
I'd be happy to spend it with my fw and our kids but she wants to be at her parents with our boys and for me and our daughter to be at a hotel with my parents xx
It's your choice 😊 im staying at the hotel with my mom and braidsmaids but mainly so I can get up and all have breakfast cooked for us and were all in one place to start getting ready. Xx
It's your wedding so you do as you want. Just because you spend that night apart is not gonna bring any bad luck ect. Start new traditions xx
Ha I spent the night in a hotel room with my fiancé as we went down to our location the day before our guests then the next day he went off the best mans room , it is what’s right for you xx
I stayed home with my Fiance & kids, went to the venue at 8am in the morning to get ready & got married at 12.30. My husband got ready at home, with his best man so didn't see my dress until the ceremony
We have friends staying ours with us the night before and then in the morning our friends and my h2b will be going to his sister's to get ready. Meanwhile my sisters are coming to mine to get ready with me. You don't have to stick to tradition. Some traditions are just silly and unimportant. You have a child and therefore would want to stay with your family. Don't listen to what others say. Do what you want to do.
I stayed at home with my husband,he was out the night before and i had to be up quite early so he didnt see me that day until i walked down the aisle,we had alot of people saying it wasnt right but we never actually saw eachother so i didnt see the point.x
Well I got married abroad and we stayed together the night before and I went off to where my mum was staying to get changed which is where my dress was. It was what we wanted to do so we did it.
I'm staying at home with my children and my groom will be at his parent's it's practical and what we want
We are staying at home together the night before, we have a 4 year old and 7 month old (will be 1 when we get married) id rather keep a routine and know they will sleep comfortly. H2b is leaving to go to his parents in the morning before hair and make up come.
Staying at the hotel with h2b. Will sleep better that way. Then he’ll get ready in best mans room & bridesmaids arrive. Good luck x
I'm staying at the venue with my maid of honour and my partner is staying at the venue with his best man. Separate rooms x
Staying venue night before with my sis and kids. We are going to do spa in day then lovely meal. All going to get ready together then in morning 😁 xx
Me and the husband stayed together at home with our baby girl. We chilled and watched some films. Went to bed together. Woke up in the morning. He got ready in the living room and me in the bedroom with my friend. And he left leaving with a kiss and I met him at the wedding.
Me and H2B are getting married in New York and are staying together the night before, as we don't believe in traditions, although once we wake up in getting ready in our room with my MOH and he's getting ready in his parents room. :) X
I am staying at my mums and partner staying with his mum but you can do it anyway you want xx
My h2b and I are staying at our venue. We've booked the honeymoon suite for the night before and we are going to order room service, just chill and take in everything that is happening and is about to happen.
We’re staying at our venue but in the same room chilling out. I don’t really understand why people stay in different locations anymore, it’s a tradition based on the bride and groom not knowing each other. I’ve lived with my fiancé for 7 years 🤷🏻♀️
I am staying T our home and my partner staying at his parents
we stayed at home the night before. I was to finishing off all the flowers and hubby was loading them into the van. we then went the following morning to the hairdressers and the venue. I got ready upstairs in the cottage with the bridesmaids and he and the best men got ready downstairs. we didn't see each other in our wedding outfits until I arrived at the venue. just do whatever you are happy with. xx
I’m having my bridesmaid over watch a film have some fizz etc...my boys are going with my OH to his sisters down the road! It’s meant to be bad luck to see your OH the night before but I suppose it depends on how suspicious you are
H2B is staying at the venue with his family and me, my daughter and MOH are staying at my house. X
We are staying at our flat as we have lived together for years and think its a silly tradition if you already live together.
We are staying together do what you want it’s your day after all start your own tradition x
We are hiring a cottage for the whole weekend of our wedding and will be spending the night before together! Sod tradition do it your way! I am so excited to wake up next to my wife to be the morning of our wedding xxxx
We are spending the night before together and going out for breakfast together on the morning of the wedding. We are also having a sweetheart table rather than a top table so that we can spend as much time as possible together on the most important day of our lives x
We are all staying at the venue. Myself and h2b have separate rooms (moh with me and best man & our son with him) our close friends and family are also staying too. So food and drinks on the night! Can't wait x
I think it’s 2018 and your big day so do what feels right to you. Have a lovely day xx
I stayed at my parents and my husband at the venue of our reception xx
BBQ at the venue with our friends and family.
It’s your day, do want you want.
I will be staying hopefully in the venue where I be getting married next day my partner will stay at home or with his brother
Was going to stay at the venue but I think I’m going to stay at home and just leave early head to venue where we will be getting ready
Make sure my two kids are ok
I got married abroad - I stayed in the hotel where the wedding was taking place with my bridesmaid and my h2b stayed at the hotel we’d been staying in the rest of the week with the best man and friends. It was just easier for me to stay at the venue with the dresses etc ready for the big day.
We are getting married in Cornwall, and staying there for a week, so I will be staying with my h2b and family the night before then we will be getting ready together, and travelling to the venue together. Who cares what people say do whats right for you! Sod tradition, plus you already have a family together so I think it's nice to start your big day as a family, together.
We are staying together the night before and I will be getting ready at the venue the next morning as we are getting married at a hotel
I’m staying at the hotel. But it’s your day you decide what you want to do. Tradition doesn’t always have to be what you do
I would want my h2b to stay at home. But I no he will stay at the hotel. But I’m Going be at home with the kids and they get ready with them. As I don’t want any bridesmaids or anyone getting ready with me bar my mum.
Do whatever you want hun, I think it's a lovely idea and definitely one that's crossed my mind about our big day. Enjoy the calm before the (wonderful and hectic) storm together as a family. Screw "tradition", it'll be your little tradition :-)
H2B and I are staying in a hotel near our venue the night before. Waking up together. He is then staying in the room to get ready with his crew whilst I'm at the venue with mine.