Hi brides . Are your husbands to be very involved? Or rather let you decide? My husband to be very involved. Can be abit bridzilla. He wants a lot of things. - which I don’t mind , I like the face he cares. X
Hi my Fiance was showing no interest at all but half way through January decided things needed to be settled:)
My H2B lets me decide most things, however does have a say on most finalised decisions. I want him to like things too haha!
My H2B doesn't like the detail so has left it to me but we have decided on the important things together such as the details for the ceremony, the cake, the car and who will be in the bridal party.
My h2b has chosen his suit, best man, weve agreed on church and venue other than that hes leaving it to me x
My H2B has pretty much had nothing to do with the planning - I dragged him around venues, to the menu tasting, our final meeting with the venue and to his suit fitting as I felt he needed to be at those, but other than that the only thing he has done is chose the first dance song. I used to be a wedding coordinator and came across a few grooms who were more involved than the bride
My Fiance is surprisingly very involved I didn't think he would be because he's so laid back. But he has been part of everything that we've done so far.
My h2b is pretty much involved with everything its his day aswell as mine x
Mine is super involved! Luckily we agree on the vision!
Mine is very involved, he’s more picky than me and very set on his ideas, I have had to say is it his wedding or ours but I’m sure we will find a happy medium in the end 😊
I think my h2b has been more involved than me! x
H2B is involved, we've only just got engaged but luckily we want the same thing so we share ideas and I ok everything with him before I finise it x
Luckily my partner and I have very similar tastes. Hes got other things he needs to focus on at the moment so im doing all the legwork and research/data collection. Then together we will sit down and make decicions. So he will be involved when the time comes to make choices but for now he just listens to me waffle on about ideas and stuff.
Mine hasn't been involved at all 😂 I ask his opinion and he says "whatever you think is best".
The only thing I've put him in charge of is his suit which he still hasn't got and we're getting married next month 😥 lol x
My fiancé is a little vague now and then but I always run ideas through him and he'll say if he likes it or not. I always say that he doesn't know what he wants but he does know what he doesn't want.
My husband organised my entire wedding. And did a bloody good job of it too. I think it’s sad when men don’t want to be involved.x
Rebecca Louise Cotter x
I'm so involved that I liked UK Bride on Facebook. That about says it all I think
My husband wanted to be very involved - he didn't want to feel like he was just 'turning up' he had his say in everything and mostly wanted the same things I wanted anyway :-)
He surprised me because I thought he'd let me get on with it but it was nice to have his input, afterall it was as much his day as it was mine, and he actually came up with some amazing ideas that I hadn't even thought of :-)
My husband was involved on the planning of our wedding, though he spent the whole time saying he didn't! Lol. It made it all the more special x
Mine is involved in everything. It's our day
Mine chose the venue, helped choose the cake and picked his suit. The rest he has left to me
My h2b did all the sorting and left the decorating up to me so it would be exactly how I wanted it 😊 x
My fiancé wants to be involved and we’ve decided everything together! Let’s face it it takes two to get married!
Mine is clueless 😂 but I involve him with direct questions and choices, and then he helps out. I think he just doesn't know where to start lol x
Mine lost complete interest in the discussion over chair covers and table decorations . His response was what are they for then ? Lol however the discussion over alcohol buying most enthusiastic
He's involved in the important things like the songs for the ceremony,choosing venue,wedding party ect but when it comes to things like flowers and table pieces ect he just says whatever you think lol.
OMG Peter Hood all these boyfriends involved in wedding planning,, Shame on you! Tut tut 🤣
My husband was a Groomzilla Had his own Wedding File too
My H2B is the wedding diva if anything . No he fully involved. And it's quite nice if he see somewhere with a wedding fayre or wedding-y thing on asks if I can't it.
My h2b is very involved in everything always checks to see if I'm ok with it