Tanya Alexander
Tanya Alexander 8 Feb 2018

Hi brides . Are your husbands to be very involved? Or rather let you decide?...

Hi brides . Are your husbands to be very involved? Or rather let you decide? My husband to be very involved. Can be abit bridzilla. He wants a lot of things. - which I don’t mind , I like the face he cares. X

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 8 Feb 2018

Hi my Fiance was showing no interest at all but half way through January decided things needed to be settled:)

Mary Green
Mary Green 8 Feb 2018

My H2B lets me decide most things, however does have a say on most finalised decisions. I want him to like things too haha!

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 8 Feb 2018

My H2B doesn't like the detail so has left it to me but we have decided on the important things together such as the details for the ceremony, the cake, the car and who will be in the bridal party.

Stacey Gray
Stacey Gray 8 Feb 2018

My h2b has chosen his suit, best man, weve agreed on church and venue other than that hes leaving it to me x

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 8 Feb 2018

My H2B has pretty much had nothing to do with the planning - I dragged him around venues, to the menu tasting, our final meeting with the venue and to his suit fitting as I felt he needed to be at those, but other than that the only thing he has done is chose the first dance song. I used to be a wedding coordinator and came across a few grooms who were more involved than the bride

Rakha Lanji
Rakha Lanji 8 Feb 2018

My Fiance is surprisingly very involved I didn't think he would be because he's so laid back. But he has been part of everything that we've done so far.

Nia Williams
Nia Williams 8 Feb 2018

My h2b is pretty much involved with everything its his day aswell as mine x

Amber Neat
Amber Neat 8 Feb 2018

Mine is super involved! Luckily we agree on the vision!

Katrina Mussellwhite
Katrina Mussellwhite 8 Feb 2018

Mine is very involved, he’s more picky than me and very set on his ideas, I have had to say is it his wedding or ours but I’m sure we will find a happy medium in the end 😊

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Feb 2018

I think my h2b has been more involved than me! x

Shelley Rayworth
Shelley Rayworth 8 Feb 2018

H2B is involved, we've only just got engaged but luckily we want the same thing so we share ideas and I ok everything with him before I finise it x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Feb 2018

Luckily my partner and I have very similar tastes. Hes got other things he needs to focus on at the moment so im doing all the legwork and research/data collection. Then together we will sit down and make decicions. So he will be involved when the time comes to make choices but for now he just listens to me waffle on about ideas and stuff.

Rebecca Cherrett
Rebecca Cherrett 8 Feb 2018

Mine hasn't been involved at all 😂 I ask his opinion and he says "whatever you think is best".
The only thing I've put him in charge of is his suit which he still hasn't got and we're getting married next month 😥 lol x

Bethany Smith
Bethany Smith 8 Feb 2018

My fiancé is a little vague now and then but I always run ideas through him and he'll say if he likes it or not. I always say that he doesn't know what he wants but he does know what he doesn't want.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Feb 2018

My husband organised my entire wedding. And did a bloody good job of it too. I think it’s sad when men don’t want to be involved.x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Feb 2018

Rebecca Louise Cotter x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 8 Feb 2018

I'm so involved that I liked UK Bride on Facebook. That about says it all I think

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

My husband wanted to be very involved - he didn't want to feel like he was just 'turning up' he had his say in everything and mostly wanted the same things I wanted anyway :-)
He surprised me because I thought he'd let me get on with it but it was nice to have his input, afterall it was as much his day as it was mine, and he actually came up with some amazing ideas that I hadn't even thought of :-)

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

My husband was involved on the planning of our wedding, though he spent the whole time saying he didn't! Lol. It made it all the more special x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

Mine is involved in everything. It's our day

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

Mine chose the venue, helped choose the cake and picked his suit. The rest he has left to me

Suki Charlton
Suki Charlton 9 Feb 2018

My h2b did all the sorting and left the decorating up to me so it would be exactly how I wanted it 😊 x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

My fiancé wants to be involved and we’ve decided everything together! Let’s face it it takes two to get married!

Holly Marshall-Clarke
Holly Marshall-Clarke 9 Feb 2018

Mine is clueless 😂 but I involve him with direct questions and choices, and then he helps out. I think he just doesn't know where to start lol x

Vittoria Di Franco
Vittoria Di Franco 9 Feb 2018

Mine lost complete interest in the discussion over chair covers and table decorations . His response was what are they for then ? Lol however the discussion over alcohol buying most enthusiastic

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

He's involved in the important things like the songs for the ceremony,choosing venue,wedding party ect but when it comes to things like flowers and table pieces ect he just says whatever you think lol.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

OMG Peter Hood all these boyfriends involved in wedding planning,, Shame on you! Tut tut 🤣

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 9 Feb 2018

My husband was a Groomzilla Had his own Wedding File too

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 10 Feb 2018

My H2B is the wedding diva if anything . No he fully involved. And it's quite nice if he see somewhere with a wedding fayre or wedding-y thing on asks if I can't it.

Scarlet Williams
Scarlet Williams 13 Feb 2018

My h2b is very involved in everything always checks to see if I'm ok with it

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