My Mum has fallen out with her brothers and sisters over my nans funeral, I am still talking to my aunts and uncles because other than my mum they are the only family i have left on my mums side. How do i invite them without upsetting my mum?
Talk to your mum, see if there is a way that things can become civil between them.. Even if its only a truse for your day. Good luck..
I think the answer is you probably can't. Just let your mum know you are inviting them and then don't sit them near each other. Hopefully they can be civil for the one day
Tell.your mum.you haven't fallen out with tbem and its your day and want them.there. she needs to bury the hatchet for your day
I've had same issue with my mum n aunts and Nan when my grandad passed and I've not invited my aunt's cause do t want it to pick off of make my min feel uncomfortable... it's hard but some times people don't just bury it for a day specially when people have had a drink... good luck on ur choice xx
I had this issue too I told them all that if they can’t put their differences to one side for our special day then don’t bother coming they have all agreed to it currently
It’s your day..... your mum and her sisters will be big enough to realise this and be gracious enough to be civil for your wedding. The fall out is between your mum and her sisters not you, so just tell your mum you are inviting them and you want your day to run smoothly without upset. Hope all works out for you xx
For me my loyalty would be with my mum x
I have had this problem with my dad he doesn't speck to his brother or his brothers wife I spoke to my dad about it and thought he would hit the roof but all he said was it's your dad your choice I don't have to speck to him and he doesn't have to speck to me just sit with your mum and explain that you would like them all to be there on your special day and see what she says it is hard because you don't want to disappoint anyone especially your parent xx