How do you organize a low key wedding without upsetting family?

Hi no matter how hard you try or whatever you do, some one will be upset :)

A few of my family members keep telling me don't forget to invite 'such and such' which will cost a fortune so I've decided that the family members that have bothered with me and my family the last year will be invited other family members who you never speak to leave them, hope this helps x

Have an informal meal at a restaurant for the guests that you don't want at the wedding. If it's someone like your mum that's upset about the small numbers, convince her to pay for the meal too! =P