When you ask your bridesmaid and matron of honour . Do you do you get them...

Hi you can ask them separately or together, I would put the champagne flute and Prosecco separate :)

I sent them cards asking I had them made! They loved them.

It's up to you how you ask them, I was so excited I just text them. I have done them gift bags for the night before which has slippers and robes in.

I asked them separately and gave them a little box to open with a robe and prosecco in them.
The night before the wedding i'm going to give them a little thank you present- so I'd potentially save the robe, slippers and flute for the night before and it could be there thank you gift?

I’ve made boxes and they are getting them the night before . I just asked with a card

I’m asking mine altogether but that’s because they all know each other. I’ve got a box with lots of things inside including a flute this will then be wrapped so they all unwrap them together. The robe and slippers I would personally wait until the wedding day but that’s my opinion. :)

I got mine a bottle of prosecco and got them a hanger with their names date and roles on it. They loved it. I also have my maid of honour a card.

Lol. I just asked mine. When i saw them. No gifts etc. That's the it was 34 years ago. Inexpensive and straight forward

I just asked mine when I saw them.. didn’t even think of gifts when asking them. x

It's up to you how you do it. I told my bridesmaids and moh at our engagement party I made little boxes and painted "will you be my bridesmaid/maid of honour" in them with a little sparkly ring and a bracelet that had bridesmaid on it. I made them stand next to each other and open them. It was amazing. (The picture is them opening the boxes moh in the middle.) However you choose to do it I'm sure they'll love it xx

I've asked mine separately as we are never all together (different circles). I've just asked them but will be getting them a little gift before we start planning

I asked mine separately with a little gift bag with a mini prosecco, chocolates and a tag on that said will you be my bridesmaid. I gave them their robes the night before the wedding and their jewellery and a few other little gifts the morning of the wedding

I asked separately, as one of them lives in America. I sent her a jigsaw puzzle asking her to be my bridesmaid.