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UKbride Member Request 25 Nov 2017

Are you wearing heels??? I want to wear heels as I will feel like I look...

Are you wearing heels??? I want to wear heels as I will feel like I look better and will feel more dressed up but me and my partner are the same height without them? I don't want to be bending in photos but don't want to look like the iron giant haha

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E Wilson
E Wilson 25 Nov 2017

I will be. Mine are 4.7 inches. I believe they will make me ever so slightly taller but I fell in love with my shoes.

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 26 Nov 2017

I'm wearing heels but as I will be standing a lot I have kept them to 1.5 inches high.

Stephanie Wood
Stephanie Wood 26 Nov 2017

Yes I will be but my fiancé is 6'6" and I'm 5'4" so I definitely need them. I might still need to stand on a step for the photos 😂.

Chloe Mitchell
Chloe Mitchell 27 Nov 2017

I am, my h2b is just a bit shorter than me without them, but they were the shoes I wore on our first date, so it seems right to wear them again for the wedding x

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 28 Nov 2017

I will be wearing huge heels - but I am 4'11, my partner is 5'11 and my dad is 6'4! So I kinda need them lol

Rhian Priest-Dibben
Rhian Priest-Dibben 28 Nov 2017

I'm in the same situation as you! He is taller by cm's haha!
I might go for a small heel/wedge just to give me that confidence (always makes me stand better) May sneak some slippers in for the meal time though haha

Siobhan Knight-Potgieter
Siobhan Knight-Potgieter 28 Nov 2017

Don’t worry, I’m four inches taller then my husband in flats, I wore small heels and he got some shoes with a hidden heel so I didn’t tower over him x

Mary Reid
Mary Reid 28 Nov 2017

I’m wearing heels as I’m shorter then my partner then flip flops for the dancing x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I'm 5'5, he's 6'1 but I'm wearing flat shoes. Comfort wins for me. I very rarely wear heels so it just wouldn't be me to wear them for the wedding

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I am . Im only 5ft 1 and my h2b is 6ft 2 but im only wearing kitten heels as i never wear heels and want to be comfortable x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I'm going to be in flats. It'll be more comfortable, and I've a floor length dress so they won't be seen regardless.

Nicola Mooney
Nicola Mooney 28 Nov 2017

I'm taller than my husband by like an inch so generally don't wear heels anyway lol. I'm 6ft1! I'm a converse and skinny jeans kinda girl so wore blinged up converse... obviously I was still taller but your photographer will work their magic....

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UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I’m wearing converse x

Charline Metcalfe
Charline Metcalfe 28 Nov 2017

If your the same height without heels I would definitely wear flats . Like you say you don’t want to be bending down all day or receive your pictures and not be happy with how your standing because you were conscious of being taller than h2b ☺️

Danielle Ryde
Danielle Ryde 28 Nov 2017

My h2b is only 5 inches taller than me so it would be maybe 4/5 inch heels for me it's totally ur choice whatever u feel comfortable doing it's ur day x

Caroline Larner
Caroline Larner 28 Nov 2017

I have this dilemma too! My partner is only 0.5" taller than me but I really want to wear heels. My partner isn't bothered at all when I wear heels so I will definitely be wearing them on the day. Logistically I am thinking around a 3" heel though as it will be more comfortable for standing around in as it's a long day?!

Ayiesha Carter
Ayiesha Carter 28 Nov 2017

I'm exactly the same altho I am slightly taller already . . I even make him swap sides walking down the street so he is always on the highest part 🤣🤣🤣 I'm 6ft .. And I should be small because I absolutely love heels ... I can't decide weather to wear a slight wedge or flat sandles haha

Sonja Gibson
Sonja Gibson 28 Nov 2017

Get kitten heals maybe so like the small heels. Im having kitren heels as my h2b is smaller than me but i want heels xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I'm wearing flats as already taller than h2b

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

I'm planning on flats or a small heel as i don't want my feet to hurt!

Rachel Turnbull
Rachel Turnbull 28 Nov 2017

I’m 5’6 and my partner is 5’9.. I’m wearing heals but no more than 3”.. I’m hoping his kilt shoes give him a bit of height too 🙈

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

Sam Heaviside New this is my problem xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

me and my partner are the same height and i wore heels and it looked fine xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 28 Nov 2017

We’ve decided that we will both wear heels in the day, and at night we will both take them off and have flats.. that way our guests will be like, I swear that they were taller earlier and it will be very funny

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Olivia Brown
Olivia Brown 28 Nov 2017

If your dress is long, you won’t even see your shoes so I wouldn’t worry xxx

Eliza-jane Riley
Eliza-jane Riley 28 Nov 2017

I'm wearing flats even though I'm 5ft and my other half is 6" 3

Amy Goldstraw
Amy Goldstraw 29 Nov 2017

I don’t intend to, my feet will hurt and I will just be miserable, lucky I found something like a vans trainer that is in fitting with my wedding theme so I’m very much set. As long as you are comfortable then why not

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