Hi. My husband to be and I have been together for two years. I love him but I hate his underwear. He always wears briefs, usually white, rather than boxer shorts. I find tight whities a big turn off. For the wedding night I have bought a really ex pair of bra and knickers especially for him and i'd like him to make more of an effort like i have. How do I tell my HTB that he needs to ditch the briefs and wear some boxers? Do any of your partners wear tighty whities? Who even does these days?
It's coming up to Christmas. Perhaps buy him some nice alternatives so that he can get used to the idea.
My partner wears them but he don't wear white ones he wears them to support his bits as when he was younger he was undecended sorry for tmi I find them a turn off but you can actually find some really nice ones I get them from m&s bit on the expensive side but really nice designs. What's it matter anyway, they'll end up on the floor lol. Look at it from his point of view aswell how would you feel if he said stop wearing your French knickers and wear your Bridget Jones you'd say erm no way just an example as I obviously don't know what undies you wear lol. I think you'll find a lot of guys wear pants but we just don't know about it lol xx
Marriage isn't about underwear its about a commitment. Personally I really don't care what underwear my H2B wears because I'm the only one seeing them. Don't think about the small things because that'll be last thing you'll worry about on your day.
Why don't you put together a little package for him to open the night before the wedding-
Fill it with things for the big day
eg. cufflinks, socks, aftershave and add some pants in there too with a little note from you
That way you're not hurting his feelings by telling him his underwear is a turn off
I'm just straightforward and tell my partner he looks a twat in them pants lol
Just take them off...problem solved hahaha
Callum Robinson tighty whities
Lol me and my partner always joke about the tighty Whities... just be straight forward and honest or chuck out all the tighty whities in the bin and boxers as early Christmas present 👍 my partner loves to wear holes in socks, I rip them apart so he can’t wear them no more 😂 problem solved! All the best
Some boxers are baggy and others are more fitted maybe get him a pair of more fitted ones so it keeps him all tucked in xxx
I personally prefer boxers I find them more comfortable if I wore tighty whiteys wtb would laugh at me an deffo find it a turn off buy him some nice boxers for xmas and mention it to him how sexy you would find him in them xx
You’re planning must be going well if this is what you’re worried about on the wedding night you’d honestly have to be happy if he’s sober enough to perform never mind what underwear he’s wearing
Seriously!! You are stressing over a pair of pants!! I couldn't care less what my h2b wears as long as he is comfortable in his undies. I'm far more interested in what is under them
Not the best start to a marriage if a poor bloke can't choose his own pants 🤔
Get him a nice pair of silk boxers as part of a little present for the morning. Your making an effort I am sure he won’t mind 😊
Lmao...this is hilarious. Just tell them they are gross and they need binning. If you cant have a laugh over undies then are you really a couple. I used to wear mahoosive landers which i still do at certain times of month but not for fruity time thou. Be grateful they are not brown yfronts or paisley jobs..i hear they are making a comeback x
Funny comments ,
Relax they are only underwear...Buy him something as a sexy gift....
Sounds like Christmas undies are needed. The ones in next are good, more like boxers but hold everything in
Good luck x
I feel this post must be a joke, but you can always point out that if you want kids, boxers are better for the swimmers...
Why not buy them for him as a gift to wear on the day/night.
You love him not his undies.
Let him.wear what he likes on the day. Buy him a nice new pair.
Maybe something with groom on them and matching socks
Ask him why he wears them. It may be a comfort thing, in which case you'll have to just ask that he leaves them at the door! If not, explain that you might be more invested if you didn't have to repress thoughts of dad crotches whenever you saw them.
If you want to.change his underwear now before the wedding after 2 years..what else will.you look to change.
Let him be. He is the man you fell in.love with white briefs and all
This seems a bit of a weird thing to focus on, as long as his underwear is clean I don’t get the issue ...
Otherwise if it’s that much of an issue, say you prefer boxers and he may try for you x
Surely his pant are going to be off anyway??
Buy him personalised boxers
I wonder how these comments would look if it was the other way around and it was a man commenting on his future wife’s underwear being a “turn off” 🤔
There's only one simple solution to this one in my opinion. Stop stressing over a tiny little thing and take them off him. It's what's underneath that counts
Don't get married would be my advice
For my other half its more about comfort. He can't wear certain types because of cancer so I think your priorities are pretty awful and if you cant have a discussion about why your other half wears what he wears then perhaps you are too immature to be getting married.
I don't know if he will feel comfortable wearing a bra and knickers 😂
Put a wee box together as a wedding morning gift.... aftershave, watch, groom socks and boxers that day Property of the bride.... pack his honeymoon case with boxers instead of his briefs! But honestly u love this man, it's not about his underwear xx
Get some ODDBALLS. he can still wear briefs but they will be colourful and you raise money for testicular cancer x
Buy him a pair just for the night as a gift x
Have you tried buying him new underwear?My OH switched to trunk boxers when I bought him some as that's what I prefer. But men tend to not see the need for fancy pants,they just need something for their bits. In all honesty though,I don't see this as a deal breaker,and really not worth a fight over. Maybe just buy him a pair and send them to him on the morning of the wedding with a saucy little note,he may even surprise you and wear them
There should only be one question to this. Is he comfortable? If the answer is yes, leave him alone!
My h2b doesn't wear anything so problem solved!!
I don't mean to offend, but if your marrying him you should feel comfortable to tell him anything, and part of that being that you don't like his underwear! 🤔
Buy him some as a wedding present. However love is more than pants.
Alice read some these comments !!!!!
Accidentally wash the lot with a red jumper .... problem solved !!!!
Holly Siobhan Brannan dont know why this made me think of you but im creased
buy some calvin kleins and ditch the briefs he will have no choice but to wear them !! x
Umm. Just tell him? If you can’t talk to him about something a trivial as underwear is it a good idea to be getting married to him? X
Just buy him boxers.... Then when ever he's jn them been extra complimentary
I think that you need to rethink your attitude. If you love someone you love all of them, quirks and all. If you’re struggling to be attracted to him just because of his underwear choice there are bigger issues. My partner could wear a bin bag and I’d still think he was an Adonis and he doesn’t give a monkeys if I wear granny pants or whatever else I choose to wear. No offence but get over yourself and if it’s that big a deal to you I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship if the poor man can’t wear his tighty whiteys in peace
Would you be happy if he told you he didn’t like the underwear that you wear and he wanted you to wear a different type that you didn’t find comfortable? Let him wear whatever he is comfortable in x
It's what he's comfy in, but you could give a pair of what u like as a wedding day gift along with other bits n Bob's for him to use on the day hopefully he'll take the hint... although he may not be comfy in what u buy and it is a long day to be having an irritated nether region.
My god girls some of these comments are harsh! She's not saying he can't wear his choice of pants, she obviously wouldn't be marrying him if she were that shallow, she's looking for advice to tactfully ask him to wear something more attractive on their wedding night.
I'm sorry I couldn't help laughing 🙈😂
My fiancé and I have been together 10 yrs with 2 children, engaged for 4 years and I couldn't care a less what underwear he wants to wear. It's important to feel comfortable especially down there, just like it is for a woman to feel comfortable in her bra! You're marrying him because you love him so why should it matter, sorry to say but it's a bit shallow and immature. There are much more important things in life to worry about. Surely being comfortable is alot more important, it's his wedding too. Sorry to be blunt, I do hope you do both have a wonderful day! X
Just take them off. Be reet.
Perhaps you could get him to blindfold you and then you won't have to look at them?!
What a shallow women...
Just count yourself lucky that he doesn’t go commando
I’m with you...tighty whities aren’t sexy in the slightest however maybe he feels like boxers don’t hold anything in and feels like he’s not wearing anything, you can get boxers that are tight fitting and not loose tho! Go and buy him some sexy silk ones for the wedding and send them to him as a gift but get him some xmas ones to get him used to them
Surely his choice of underpants would have been a big decision maker when you said "yes". Seriously though you need to communicate with him and if you can't over his choice of underpants what will you do if he wears a horrible pair of shoes or maybe even something serious when you get married