UKbride Member Request 6 Nov 2017

Me and h2b have been writing our guest list. I’ve said that I only want...

Me and h2b have been writing our guest list. I’ve said that I only want children from our families to be at the whole day and for our friends children to come from 7. We’ve disagreed and he said it’s not fair. Help, what’s your opinion?!

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 6 Nov 2017

Hi I agree with you :)

Rachel Schofield
Rachel Schofield 6 Nov 2017

We're doing exactly the same. Luckily my h2b agrees with me....our true friends will understand that we only have limited spaces! (we hope!)

Steph V
Steph V 6 Nov 2017

We are doing this, but only inviting his nieces and nephews. If people cause a fuss or do not understand they have to know it's your wedding and your money.
Some caterers we have looked into booking charge full price for children to eat so this is something your H2B should consider.
I agree with you.Hope this helps.

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 7 Nov 2017

It's not only the money, its also that children get bored and tired. Last thing you want is cranky children screaming and crying throughout your wedding. Maybe point that out to him.

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 7 Nov 2017

We are not having children at all as our family doesnt have any young children any more and we want our friends to enjoy the whole night without having to worry about children. I think it is perfectly fair and I am sure people will understand x

Rhian Priest-Dibben
Rhian Priest-Dibben 7 Nov 2017

love children at a wedding, so everyone will be invited to mine. if they are family or friends children, i want them to all be there . going to potential hire one of the people who entertain kids throughout the day so they are being looked after without worrying. in the evening they can do their own thing haha

Vicki Allen
Vicki Allen 8 Nov 2017

Totally agree and I am sure your friends will enjoy your day better without having to look after them. Plus its just bumps the cost up.

Simone Williams
Simone Williams 8 Nov 2017

We were gonna do this then changed our minds as it would only mean not inviting x3 children to our wedding and up setting x3 sets of friends. It turns out that one of our friends are not bringing their child.


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