Lis Vaux
Lis Vaux 5 Nov 2017

So I posted a few weeks ago about my ex not allowing my children to my...

So I posted a few weeks ago about my ex not allowing my children to my wedding. After everyone's extremely useful input, there's a fire inside me that's ignited and I'm determined to do it how I want with my children there... I've downloaded wall calendars for 2018 and 2019, I've printed off term dates, and tomorrow I'll be plotting dates on said calenders and I will have a date for my wedding!! I've also done an extreme amount of planning and budgeting. Ridiculously excited now!

20 Comments
Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 5 Nov 2017

Hi I hope everything works out well for you :)

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 5 Nov 2017

I'm so glad you are going to give it a go. Just try not to let that excitement show to your ex or by the sounds of it he will do his best to spoil things. Maybe don't tell your children any details or they may inadvertently pass them back.

Rachel Stevens
Rachel Stevens 5 Nov 2017

Hope everything works out for you x

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 6 Nov 2017

Good luck x

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 6 Nov 2017

Well done! So glad you can feel excited about it now :)

Sarah Pollard
Sarah Pollard 7 Nov 2017

Ooooo Exciting , Enjoy Planning !! 🎉🌟❤️

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

I couldnt imagine anybody being so selfish especially a parent how petty, I hope yoyr kids get to see you on your special day, good luck to you

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

That’s so incredibly childish! My daughters dad literally just called and asked how my wedding went on Saturday. I’ll send him pics now of her in her bridesmaid dress. I really hope it works out for you x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

Aww I’m glad hunny x

Jane Webb
Jane Webb 7 Nov 2017

My h2bs ex is just like this she will do her upmost to ruin everything we plan! So we can’t even say the date or anything around his children as she asks a lot of questions

Marie Richardson
Marie Richardson 7 Nov 2017

Thats brilliant news really pleased for you xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

Amazing news. Keep that determination as having them there is the most important thing. Enjoy every second.

Lizzy Carter
Lizzy Carter 7 Nov 2017

Good on you! Your ex sounds very difficult and bitter, and the type to go out of his way to cause trouble. I hope everything works out for you. x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

Well done you x

Lis Vaux
Lis Vaux 7 Nov 2017

Things started to get very awkward between us when my youngest daughter asked her dad if he though mummy (me) was pretty. He laughed and said 'of course mummy's pretty you look just like her...' very awkward.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

How dare your ex not allow your children to your wedding. They are your family.
Put your foot down.
Bet.they would be allowed to.their wedding if shoe was on.the other foot

Victoria Smith
Victoria Smith 7 Nov 2017

Wahooo good for you 👍

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

yay

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

Well done you! I know how it feels to be answering to an ex about kids!! Good luck!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Nov 2017

Good lass!!!! 🤞

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