Getting married on the 18th of October. My partner and I have 3 children....

Personally I wouldn't as I think they would get bored. Better to have them on another table with some 'minders' and activities.

Hi do what you think is best :)

We are, we are getting married to complete our family, so having them on either side of us made perfect sense to us. No children are sitting next to each other on any of our tables. But we are having afternokn tea so children will be able to just get up when they want. X

I think it depends on the type of day you want. Of its very formal maybe have them on another table with something to keep them entertained. It's your day so depends if u want to be hassled with kids or just focus on you and H2B X

My sister only had her and her husband and the two children on her top table
It was perfect for her

We have three as well and wanted them on the top table but due to extended parents we had the kids on the closest table to us.

Yes definitely because they are as big a part of my life as he is! Xx

Mine were x

I had my 3 children on the top table with us. 14 year old twin boys and a 9 year old boy. We didn't have speeches so worked fine for us

My son will be with us on top table. Hes as much a part of the marriage as we are! X

We are! We’re having our 2 girls at the top table xx

We did, we had bride, child, bridal parents, groom, child, groom parents. Bridal party sat with their own family, otherhalfs on nearest tables.

We are. Our top table is me and my OH, both our boys and his dad and my mum x

Mine will be! I felt they are part of our family and didnt want not to be involved and the biggest part of our lives!

I'm getting married two years n it's myself hubby n 3 kids

I did. We have 4 kids between us. So top table was round with me, hubby our kids and our parents.

We had our two on the top table with us :) although now we have 4 I think it would've planned out differently lol

We had a small top table with just me my partner n our two boys x

I'm having a formal wedding. I'm putting my children either side of myself and the groom. They will get a goodie box to keep them entertained. Each to their own but my wedding will be as much about them as it will be about the union. I want them to enjoy the day with us. Plus they will be 2 and 3 and most likely won't settle unless with me and Lee

We have 2 children so we are having one either side of us, I’ve done activity boxes for the children to keep them entertained

My child will be at the top table sitting next to us we had sex we made her I carried her for 9 months and had 5 months of morning sickness, I gave birth to her she is what defines us as a family so she will be sitting there proudly on the top table celebrating her mummy’s and daddy’s love for each other!!

We’re having our 4 year on our table with us

Thank you all so much for your responses!
Think I now know how I will be planning the seating arrangements! Xx

Ours will be :)

Our children were 12,14 and 18 when we got married.2 were bridesmaids and our son was best man number 2.We had them with us and our parents xx

We've only got one little boy. He'll only be 2 and half when we get married. I think he'd be bored sat with us the whole time so I'm gna put him a high chair with us and one with his cousins at the nearest table, so he can eat with us then go play with the other kids x

Depends on their ages and how comfortable it will be for you and them

We are gettin married on the 28/10/18 and have a blended family I have 2 boys who are 13 and 10 from a previous relationship and my h2b has 2 girls who are 17 and 13 from a previous relationship we also share a son who will be nearly 3 when we are married and the 2 girls are my bridesmaids and the 3 boys are groomsmen the whole point in our wedding is to bring our family together we have been together for 9 years and the top table is all of us plus our parents so 11 of us in all xx

My three girls will be with me and my h2b and our parents it all depends on you but the way I looked at it as we are becoming a big family and it's all our day x

We had our son who is 6 next to us on our big day where he should be x

I had our 13 yr old son beside me and our 11 yr old daughter beside my husband. Bridesmaids and the two bestmen I had my parents at the first table in front of us. .which was good so they could see us when they did the speeches etc. It was the best most perfect day. 4 weeks ago today 😍..good luck with your day too x

We have three children too. Just wondering this myself

We did as one of our children is only 3 and is mummies little cling on. There was no way he was going to sit anywhere else without screaming the place down. The older 2 sat with family x

My girls of 6 and 4 are hosting the "kids" table where all the "kids" are late twenties and thirties :) and little boy of 2 is sitting with my mum as I recently lost my dad.

I gave my step daughter the option of where see wanted to sit and she choose to sit with with the other children and their parents as she will have more fun over there x

my son wont be, he is sitting with the flower girl his little gf on table infront of us

Aw thank you all for your responses! My son will be 3. My step children will be 15 and 13 . All boys so think il make a decision near the time! Lol x