Laura Passos
Laura Passos 22 Oct 2017

Hey Ladies, on Wednesday I put down the deposit for my wedding. After...

Hey Ladies, on Wednesday I put down the deposit for my wedding. After putting the deposit down everything got very real and now I'm very anxious. Is this just me being silly or is this normal?

E Wilson
E Wilson 22 Oct 2017

I had the same feeling. Make it all very real. I'm booking our registrars this week and I'm getting nervous.

Laura Passos
Laura Passos 22 Oct 2017

I've been told to get the time you want. Have to be the first at the registry office so as soon as they open have to already be at the door otherwise people take the time you want.

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 22 Oct 2017

Hi make sure you see the registrar or vicar quickly to see if the date and time you want is available :)

Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 22 Oct 2017

I felt exactly the same. Don’t worry it turns into excitement x

Laura Wilkinson
Laura Wilkinson 22 Oct 2017

I also felt very anxious. It's real n I'm getting married!! Just remember you're marrying the person you live. I'm a bit of a control freak and want everything sorted now as I'm worried it won't get done. I know I'm being silly and have to keep telling myself to enjoy the planning.

Rebecca watson
Rebecca watson 22 Oct 2017

completely normal I would say. congratulations

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 22 Oct 2017

Completely understandable to be anxious. I was shaking and very emotional for days afterwards (partly because there was a query over my divorce papers which happily was sorted). Now I'm happily planning and thoroughly enjoying it. I'm sure you will too. x

Vickie Simpson
Vickie Simpson 23 Oct 2017

We are just about to and I feel the same. It's perfectly normal. You picked the venue for a reason and your marrying the one you love. Enjoy the planning. 👍🏻 X

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 26 Oct 2017

I think this is really normal. I did too - it makes it all very real!

Laura Passos
Laura Passos 7 Nov 2017

Thank you ladies. I am starting to feel slightly more excited as in January going to start sending the save the date cards. :) x

Chloé Roe
Chloé R 7 Nov 2017

Totally normal.
I did this about the venue and then again when I found 'the' dress

Iona Lambert
Iona Lambert 12 Nov 2017

I think it's normal, and I feel I will be the same when we find what we are looking for. Xxx


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