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UKbride Member Request 18 Oct 2017

So, I don't get on with my mother-in-law. And I know this is common but this...

So, I don't get on with my mother-in-law. And I know this is common but this is extreme, we have no contact and there's no solving the situation. She simply has nothing nice to say about me or me marrying her son although the whole family agrees I've been nothing but supportive of her. What do I do on the wedding day? Do I just treat her like a normal guest or do I ruin my mood all day having to pretend I care that shes there?

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Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 18 Oct 2017

Hi I have a similar situation but my FMIL has decided not to attend :)

Jessica Bateman
Jessica Bateman 19 Oct 2017

I would be really nice to her so people see she's nasty

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 19 Oct 2017

I would just be civil, with all the other people there on the day you won’t spend a lot of t8me with her anyway

Jaki Green
Jaki Green 21 Oct 2017

Treat her how you’d like to be treated.
That way nothing negative can come back on you because of her attitude.
I hope you have a great day despite her x x

Aimee Roberts
Aimee Roberts 26 Oct 2017

I would be civil, try not to think about her too much as its your special day.

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