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UKbride Member Request 11 Oct 2017

Hi brides, Those of you who are putting RSVP cards in with your invites...

Hi brides, Those of you who are putting RSVP cards in with your invites are you putting stamped return envelopes in too or just addressed envelopes?

37 Comments
Naomi Chappel
Naomi Chappel 11 Oct 2017

I am just planning on putting the envelope as I know some people wont send it back and will just tell me x

Helen Leel
Helen Leel 11 Oct 2017

I would put a stamped envelope, that way it makes it easier to reply. X

Julianne Heffernan
Julie Heffernan 11 Oct 2017

I'm not as that will just cost extra. We have given plenty of time for an rsvp and i may send out an email to remind about a month before the deadline date.x

Lizzy Carter
Lizzy Carter 11 Oct 2017

I am toying with the idea of making a website so people can rsvp on there and for people like my Nana I will pop a stamped envelope. x

Stephanie Wood
Stephanie Wood 12 Oct 2017

I've just put an email and phone number on mine.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We are putting stamps on rsvp envelopes of any invites we are posting to our guests. The ones I am hand delivering will just hand them back to me

Sonja Gibson
Sonja Gibson 13 Oct 2017

Ive gave my email and facebook and mobile so thwy can contact that way x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I used a website. “Gettingmarried.co.uk” it’s free & easy to use.

Sharon  Fowles
Sharon Fowles 13 Oct 2017

We're putting 2nd class stamps on ours... toyed with using email but alot of our guests don't have internet.. plus we are putting song requests in them too so hopefully that will encourage them to post back..

Sophia Stonehill-Brooks
Sophia Stonehill-Brooks 13 Oct 2017

Just an envelope x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I put a stamped envelope in with mine and got them all back in time!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I.woukdnt put an SAE in. Stamps and envelopes arent expensive to.buy.
You have enough expense with your wedding

Kattrina Loizou
Kattrina Loizou 13 Oct 2017

We have set up a email account for RSPV and asked people to email us

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I'm putting a second class stamp x

Leanne Harris
Leanne Harris 13 Oct 2017

I'm putting our mobiles to text. I've found a lot of people don't mail back to RSVP

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We made postcards with a space for a stamp on it

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We put a stamped and addressed envelope in with our invitations with both our phone numbers and an email address and some people STILL haven't bothered to RSVP. Guests can be so rude Chris Wedmore

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We've put RSVP cards in as we need menu choices as well. And I'm hand writing the envelopes

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We just put addressed envelopes in

Sara Higham
Sara Higham 13 Oct 2017

Just got phone number and email (made specifically for wedding things) on mine

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

Yes we used stamp envelopes with the rsvps. Felt it was more polite and would get a quicker response. X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

Telling them to text me. Simple and easy. All have mobiles.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I didn't do cards or envelopes they could either get me on Facebook text me phone me or send a card to me on their own

Celine Harland
Celine Harland 13 Oct 2017

I put stamps on mine to encourage quick replies and it worked

Alaska-Lily Morrison
Alaska-Lily Morrison 13 Oct 2017

We did a wedding website.. but included an unstamped envelope and RSVP/menu cards in each set too. X

Claire Gillick
Claire Gillick 13 Oct 2017

Ive put website adress that they can rsvp on, email address and address on reverse of rsvp (like postcard). Not paying for stamp as well as everything else!

Anita O'Sullivan
Anita O'Sullivan 13 Oct 2017

We set up a specific email address for RSVP's ...

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We included an SAE for everyone and have had the majority back quickly. We felt it was polite and if you include them there's no excuses for guests not to reply on time!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I didn't put stamps in mine. Most people emailed me or messaged me to accept. I did get some acceptance cards with the RSVP inside and i saved all these afterwards

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We will be putting an envelope with stamp and address on it, though we will be makeing it a little cheaper by going 2nd class stamps!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

We just had an addressed envelope in ours

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 13 Oct 2017

I put stamped and addresses envelopes in and I still never received them all or quite a few people hand delivered them to us. In hindsight I don't know if I would have bothered with the stamps, just another expense lol

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Oct 2017

We have added a email address, mobile number and given our address to give people options on how to reply to us

Sarah Lindsay
Sarah Lindsay 14 Oct 2017

Vista print do 100 address labels in some lovely wedding designs. That's what I've done. Only cost about £10 including postage.

Jessica Bateman
Jessica Bateman 14 Oct 2017

We just put a phone number and email address

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Oct 2017

Hi, I our a stamped return envelope in as people will be more inclined to reply quicker xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 14 Oct 2017

I have heard of a WhatsApp or Facebook wedding reply page before

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