I don’t speak to my father so he won’t be attending my wedding. Who should walk me down the aisle? My mother or one of my brothers? xx
It's really up to you.
Hi I agree with Susan :)
Whoever you would prefer x
Whoever you are closest to and feel share that connection with xx
I'm in the same situation. I have a older brother who always stood up for me when I was younger. I will be asking him.
Yeah it's a tricky one. I would say mum but then that depends who your closest to.
Either, it's your day so you should ask whoever means the most to you x
I'm having my Mum give me away - my Dad died 11 years ago. My Mum was overjoyed that I asked her and I wouldn't want anyone else to do it
I don’t speak to mine either and he isn’t coming to the wedding. My older brother is walking me down the aisle
I walked myself down the aisle so it’s really up to you how you do it x
My mum and my son will both be walking me down the aisle to give me away xx
I'm under alot of pressure to pick someone. My dad died 13 years ago and I haven't spoken to my mum for the same amount of time. Everyone keeps asking me who I'm going to ask! I really don't know!! I share your pain
I'd go for your mum but if you are closer to a brother then I'd say he'd be happy too. I'd go with what your heart and instinct x
My sister had our Mum. She's never had a relationship with her dad
That’s a decision only you can make! I had my step dad walk me down the aisle
I don't speak to any of my side of the family so they are not invited to the wedding. I have asked my partners Grandfather to walk me down the aisle we are getting married on his birthday so I thought I would be a extra treat for him plus we are close and he's done a lot more for me in the 5 years I have known him than my father has done my entire life at the end of the day it's your choice
Anyone who means the most to you. I got married on Saturday and I walked myself down the asle. I'm a divorcee and didn't feel like it was 'right' to be given away from my family (clan as when that tradition started) I have our sons give my hand to the vicar when he asked who gives this woman as I felt that was more appropriate.
Whoever you want to walk you down the aisle! 😊
I'm having my mum walk me down the aisle, because when my "dad" left us, my mum took on both roles, and raised us all on her own. She raised me, and I want her to give me away 😊
Im the same havent seen my dad in yrs so i asked my oldest brother to walk me down.
It's completely up to you. I've asked my Uncle who is also my godfather. X
I’m the same as you I’m walking alone - I walk alone all the time hahaha can’t be that bad
It's entirely your choice... If you can't decide perhaps have both walk you in?
My father passed away a few years ago, so my little sister walked me down the aisle :-)
It might mean most to your mum. I'm guessing that she was the one who raised you and gave her life to bring you up. I'd definitely ask her if she's the sentimental type
I'm the same my mother will be walking me down the aisle I can not wait c
I was disowed by my Father 4yrs ago.. so have asked my eldest son... if i hadnt got my son from 1st marriage, i would of asked my brother, as mum said she thinks its a male role.. Got her walking with my youngest son (he is ring bearer) & mother in law walking with youngest brides maid. ( My soon to be niece, her granddaughter..) so all together there will be 8 of us including me...lol..
I knew along time ago that my mum would be walking me down the aisle, she raised me and my sisters. Best of luck on your day.
I'm asking my mum
I don't speak to my dad either so asked my mum to walk me down the aisle. I did her this picture x
Whoever you'd like! I'm in the same situation my dad is a piece of work so I've always said I'm having my mum, the women raised me and my siblings basically alone. She taught me everything I needed in life and she deserves the honor of walking me down the aisle Nicola Lambert. Gotta love a parent that takes on both roles
My Grampy is walking me down the aisle as I don't speak to either parents :)
Your day so choose who YOU feel is right, even if its not a family member.
Whichever you prefer! If I was in that situation and say my mom raised me on her own I would ask my mom as a sort of nod to her hard work and stuff. X
Just have both brothers
Whoever your closest to x
When my friends sister got married, their father had previously passed away. So she asked my friend, her brother, to walk her down the aisle. Ask who ever you feel comfortable with. Xx
Both brothers x
Whoever you want Darling, it's your day. I'm getting my brother as I dont speak to my Dad either.
Either is up to you. Traditionally I would ask the oldest brother.
Maybe your grandparents? My dad past away, so I'm going to ask my nan to walk me down the Ilse, if she cannot do it I will ask my brother's.
My son walked me down the aisle, was beautiful maybe a brother?
I was in the same situation. I had my eldest brother give me away.
Im havin my 2 sons walk me down the aisle as i dnt speak with my real dad nd my mum nd step dad dnt get on xx
I'm close to my dad but I'm still walking down the aisle by myself. I don't like the idea of being handed over from one man to another. My sister is my bridesmaid so will be walking down the aisle too just noone on my arm.
My dad past away last year so I’ve asked my father-in-law to be to do it as we have a good connection and get on really well, my stepdad wouldn’t do it again as every time he has involvement in a wedding they end up divorced x
To me it be my mum but it would depend who you were closer to.
I have never met my "dad" haven't seen him since I was 3 days old, my mum was over the moon that I asked her especially when I told her I was asking her because she took on both roles and raised me with no help what so ever, if my grandad was still here I would have asked him and she knows that but was over the moon that she has been given that role, but she is refusing to do a speech xx
My dad passed away when I was little and I've been thinking who can walk me down the Isle but think I'm going to walk myself down. I'm a grown woman and I don't need to be given away
I'm asking my mam which will also be my something old on the day
U cud walk with ur mum or yr bros can hav more than 1 walk u dwn xx
My son is walking me down.
My son will be walking me down he will be 14. Xx
My Dad died when I was 15 so my Mum will be giving me away. They divorced when I was 7 and she has been my Mum and Dad for the majority of my life. She deserves the honour
I think Mum. I think they sometimes get a bit left out. They get to do sll the girl things but no real ‘role’ in the wedding. I think she’d love to walk you down the aisle x
Both. Your wedding your choice. Good luck.
I'm in a similar situation so my grandad (mum's dad) is walking me down the aisle instead. My dad is invited to the wedding but I doubt he will turn up. I haven't told him yet that my grandad will be giving me away. But it's your day so choose whoever you are closest to xx
I'm not being given away as I don't agree with that tradition. I'm using the walk down the aisle as a symbol of it being the last time I will walk alone x
I lost my father 2 years ago, my son who will be 13 is giving me away but if i didn't have boys, I would ask my mother. I think having your mum would be lovely !
My mum is walking me down the aisle.
I'm having both my mom and my son walk me with my daughter as bridesmaid so we come as a family towards h2b and his 2 children so all meet together.
I wanted my son and mom so thought sod it my day my way xx
I have no dad or grandad so my twin boys are doing it. One either side so it will be quite emotional.
My nephew is giving me away
You can walk down the isle by yourself if you wish as no one should realy take the place of the brides father but if things are realy that bad between you both then its realy up to you i dont know the circumstances between you an your father but hope theres a way you can both make up before you getvmarried you only 1 father and once hes gone theres no going back you must be hurting deep down i would think about this wisely in hope you dont regret the desicion for rest of your life but like i say evetyones circumstances are different if theres no way at all making up with your dad then its up to you who you have
My dad isn't a part of my life so my mum is giving me away as she's raised me over the past 24 years!
It's whoever you want. My grandad walked me down as he's been like a father to me x
U dont have 2 have any if u dont want to. Im walking by myself x
He would have been so proud of you still miss him............
I'm having my brother
I walked my sister down the aisle and did the 'father of the bride' speech. Whoever means the most, or whoever you want to should do it. Still think k she wanted her son to do it but he was bit young, would've been really nice as well. Rachaell L McGoniglle thoughts?
I'm having my brother walk me down