UKbride Member Request 21 Sep 2017

I’m really starting to get fed up with my bridesmaid. Ever since I asked...

I’m really starting to get fed up with my bridesmaid. Ever since I asked them to my bridesmaids they’ve shown little to no interest in my wedding or helping with ideas I even had to buy their dresses without them there having to ask them for the dress sizes. I’m having my hen do in 2 weeks and the both haven’t bothered with that and I’ve had to plan everything myself which there both not fond of the idea of just going for a meal and cocktails even though I hate clubbing and would rather a quiet affair. My H2Bs groomsmens other halves have shown more interest and have even offered to do stuff for the wedding and hen night. Ive known my bridesmaids since I was 11 and I am now 25 am I allowed to be annoyed with them and able to say anything about it, cause if the shoes was on the other foot I would be really enthusiastic and help them as much as possible.

Gaynor Charles
Gaynor Charles 21 Sep 2017

pretty awful...Id sack them! it will end up ruining your day if ths is allowed to carry on. take the dresses back if you can and uninvite them! harsh i know but its your special day!

Claire Hellewell
Claire Hellewell 21 Sep 2017

They sound like they don't deserve to be your bridesmaids :(

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 21 Sep 2017

Hi I wouldn't have got their dresses, if they can't be bothered I would get rid of them they should be supporting you if you can have the money back I would do that :)

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 21 Sep 2017

I would suggest it is a case of 'Shape up or ship out'. Doesn't sound like they are shaping up.

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 23 Sep 2017

Maybe there jealous or just annoyed with you I know I've annoyed my family so much going on about the wedding that they all abit fed up now . Try to involve them and do stuff they will enjoy too . For part of my hen do we are doing a pub crawl as most my friends and family don't like clubbing


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