My step daughter is one of my bridesmaids. Alongside her two sisters and my two daughters. She is 15 and got a right attitude on her of late. I changed the BM footwear due to her tantrums, then she started on her make up, demanding these stupid Chavvy slug brows and gold highlight, to which I've stated it's not a fashion show.....and now wants to change out of her BM dresss for the evening, again to myself and the H2B refusing. I've made the rules perfectly clear, and told her in no uncertain terms it's not about her, but it causing issues between us. She's throwing three-year old tantrums. I've even said my wedding my rules, don't like it don't be BM. But she just carries on.
Hi don't give in my Fmil tried telling us who to have for bridesmaid we said no.She has since decided that since my parents are more involved she will not be attending my Fiance told her that is up to her that when the meals are booked she cannot change her mind.
Good for you don't let others spoil it when it's you day.
It's your day and she should respect your wishes, don't give in to her and her tantrums. X
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