Some of my bridesmaids are being really difficult like they never reply to anything me or my maid of honour asks them. We can never get them together and my cousin especially never replies at all. I've asked my mum auntie and Nan to speak with her to find out if she even wants to be bridesmaid and she says yes but still doesn't reply to things. What can I do? The one that does reply she's recently moved so trying to find a date when she can get back to here for fittings is made difficult.
Make a group chat with them all and put a message saying this is date if you can't make it let me know if you don't reply I'll assume it's fine if they don't turn up don't let them be a bridesmaid
Just don't ask questions from my experience giving them options is the worst thing u can do
Agree with Alys with giving options and directly asking for opinions. I had the same with our men and it didn't work. Maybe politely say due to distance she can no longer support with the wedding planning so may be best if she isn't a bridesmaid
I wouldn't have them as my bridesmaids if they weren't willing to co operate at all.