How hard is it to plan a weeding

I just use Weedol, works a treat ;-)

It all depends on whether you want a simple private ceremony or go to the other end of the scale with all the bells and whistles and of course whether you do it all yourself or whether you engage a wedding planner.

It depends on a lot of things some people find it easier, others don't. Take it easy, try not to rush yourself and always ask for help if you need it.