UKbride Member Request 4 Sep 2017

I recently didn't get invited to a friends hen do, and feel quite down about...

I recently didn't get invited to a friends hen do, and feel quite down about this; I am invited to her wedding; however all of the other girls in our friendship group got invited to the hen do (quite a large night out 15+ girls). I'm also getting married next year, all of my friends have been invited all day, and they've all been invited to my hen do. Would you feel upset if this happened to you? Or am I just getting upset over nothing? TIA

Samantha A
Samantha A 4 Sep 2017

I would feel upset. It might be best just asking her and be upfront about it.

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 4 Sep 2017

Depends how close you are to her . I have a girl coming to my hen do who I've invited because her partner is going on my partners stag do . I wouldn't be upset that I wasn't invited to hers if she got married . If your close though I would be upset x

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 4 Sep 2017

I would probably be a little put out if I was not invited but I do know that if it is the bridesmaid organising it that it can often be difficult to get hold of everyone.

Lisa Keenan
Lisa Keenan 4 Sep 2017

I'd probably be a bit upset, however she's invited you to the wedding day which suggests that she does value you. Maybe the group was just too large so she had to trim the numbers by cutting people she's less close to? You could always ask her or one of the girls who helped organise it to put your mind at rest?


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